What does it mean when someon stares at you for more than 3 years?

well i would say that he likes you or has a crush on you.

He has a stiff neck?

You can always just sit next to him before class…or if you see him sitting alone on a bench outside…sit next to him. Then quietly ask, “You are always staring at me…is there some reason you do that?” You will have an answer at least…unless he is very shy and won’t tell you. But at least, you might have a better idea.

He might just have a bit of a crush on you.

He probably has a crush on you, unless you have some really unusual distinguishing features that make you look very different from everyone else.

You should just go up to him and talk to him (don’t be mean, just say hello and ask him about his classes or something like that). He will either become a friend or he will be frightened off, but likely, either way, he’ll stop staring.

Some people are super shy and other people have just never been taught how to go up to someone and start talking to them in a friendly manner. They stare and stare and stare because they are most likely interested, but simply do not know how to make a move toward friendship or romance.

Give the guy a break and YOU go over and say hello. If he isn’t your type, you don’t have to date him, but you may end up with a new friend.

Sounds like he’s super shy, but likes you. He’ll be totally embarrassed if you ask him why he’s staring at you, so just start talking to him. Start saying hi to him when you see him, and use his name. If you’re in class with him, ask to borrow a pencil. Ask him about homework, about his weekend, about his opinion on zombie invasions.

He LURVES you. :D
Awwwwuh. Haha.

Wow that is some intent focus. Yeah, I think the chances are good that he’s into you. Start staring at him back! Then make out.

It appears that he likes you.

Although yesterday this guy was making eyes at me at a café forever, so I finally went to talk to him, asked if I could join him at his table and he said his fianceé was on her way. D’oh! But that wasn’t three years.

Your beauty has turned him to stone.

Have you had any dreams about him?

He’s either very patient or very shy.

They have no tongue? Or…..they find you fascinating in some way. Or…....they’re just plain weird.

You’ll soon need to get a restraining order.

@vocalthoughts I assume you are joking… I hope you are joking…

He has a very fixed gaze.

Walk up to him when he is surrounded by friends. Put on your biggest smile, touch him on his arm and coo, “Hey big boy. Whatcha doing tonight?”

If he faints, he’s sweet on you.

@wundayatta I’m picturing Mae West saying that to him. LOL.

@Adagio Restraining orders aren’t laughing matters.