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How can I get my boyfriend to cuddle after sex?

Asked by carrielynn (131points) February 12th, 2011

After sex he usually cleans up then doesn’t get back in bed. He’ll smoke or watch TV. I tell him I like him to stay a few minutes because cuddling after sex feels as good as the sex itself. He says as a man he doesn’t need that, that he can just turn sex on and off. For me it builds up and then I come slowly down after. He says he understands, and I know he likes to satisfy me, but before I know it he’s in the kitchen making a sandwich as if he’s forgotten. How can I hold his attention just a few minutes longer after sex?

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