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Does it "mean anything" if you're initially attracted to someone and it's more intense than usual?

Asked by Blackberry (29346 points ) February 16th, 2011

I literally had to take a deep breath when I saw this woman, and it was even worse when I actually talked to her. Although I didn’t make a move, because I was working and that’s unprofessional, I’m already flooded with all kinds of chemicals and happy feelings. It’s hard to let go lol. So why was this one occurence so intense? Was it the woman, or my brain?

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genkan's avatar

Ah, pheromones… Maybe she’s extremely genetically compatible.

deni's avatar

Yes! Isn’t that kinda one of the signs that you could be really compatible with someone? :)

Dutchess_III's avatar

No….trust me. No. In the end, a year together, and only a year together (at the least) will tell.

ANef_is_Enuf's avatar

Just sounds like good chemistry to me.
Worth further investigation, for sure. :)

cockswain's avatar

Sounds like a recipe for premature ejaculation.

Blackberry's avatar

I sure hope so, because if I see her again, I’m going for it, guns blazing.

everephebe's avatar

Yes I have had these moments before, they’re aren’t they?

Explore it, but remember novelty is extraordinary compelling, it’s when the feeling increases each time you see the person for a long enough period of time that you should do something about it. I have fallen in love with many strangers, and I’m sure they are all lovely creatures but nothing ever became of the majority them.

cockswain's avatar

I’d do the same, and have 20 seconds of sex with her over and over until she loved me.

tranquilsea's avatar

That’s an exciting feeling. I hope it turns out well.

Dutchess_III's avatar

LOL! Pulease let us know @Blackberry! Please, please, please, please, please!!!!!

ANef_is_Enuf's avatar

I’m with @Dutchess_III. I’m all giddy and excited to hear how it goes.

JilltheTooth's avatar

Oh, I love this stuff! Yes! Keep us informed! Nosy old us

cockswain's avatar

Black bury the pipe

cockswain's avatar

too much?

Blackberry's avatar

@cockswain No, that was hilarious, and before I forget, congrats on 10k lol.

One of my co workers knows her after hearing me talk about her, and apparently she only dates guys that make enough money for her standards : ( But I’m still going to try lol.

bob_'s avatar

Some women? They be fine.

Somewhat related.

jonsblond's avatar

How can she resist that smile of yours @Blackberry. Charm beats the wallet every time. ;)

Aster's avatar

What happened to the blonde?

Blackberry's avatar

@Aster I’d rather not talk about it here lol.

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