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Did you run away as a teenager?

Asked by KateTheGreat (13640points) March 15th, 2011

When I was 16, I packed up one night with my friends and left my house in South Carolina to run away to Canada! Two male friends and I packed the car with the essentials for a great road trip and we were on our way. Our parents were calling us, police were frantically looking for us back home, and we just kept on going. When we finally reached the Canadian border, we were caught. We were detained at the border and our lives were changed quickly.

Did any of you run away as a teenager? Tell us your story! :)

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Summum's avatar

I ran away for around a month and was sleeping in the back yard of my girl friend. LOL My father told me I couldn’t ever see her again and so I left and was sleeping in her back yard.

Blackberry's avatar

Nope, I knew I had it good where I was, but I got in pretty bad trouble for letting some of my friends that ran away from home stay at my place when my mom was at work lol.

VS's avatar

Several times. The longest distance that I ever ran away was when my girlfriend and I hitchhiked to NYC from South Carolina. Of course, it was a little different era in 1968 and not nearly as much to fear in doing so.

Austinlad's avatar

I was always threatening, but never got out of the house.There’s a sweet little scene in the movie “The Man in the Grey Flannel Suit” that always reminds me of my dad and me. In the movie, Gregory Peck’s little boy gets mad because he’s told he can’t keep his dog in the house. So he threatens to run away, packs a little satchel and heads out the door. Somewhat nonchantly, Peck says, “Be sure to drop us a card.” The boy steps outside—it’s nighttime—hears a strange sound, and ducks back inside, saying, “I’ll run away tomorrow.”

picante's avatar

I was afraid of everything when I was a teenager. I know I plotted to run away on numerous occasions, probably threatened a couple of times, maybe packed a bag one time; but I never went farther than the end of the block. I guess that was where fear lived, and he stuck his ugly head out the door. Much like the character cited by Austinlad, I’d postpone my journey.

Ladymia69's avatar

All the time…to go party, see a concert, go trick-or-treating, go make out…. mostly because my parents said no too much and I just wasn’t willing to take no for an answer.

@KatetheGreat you live in SC??

KateTheGreat's avatar

@ladymia69 I live in Myrtle Beach, SC at the moment!

Sunny2's avatar

At about 15 I was upset with my mother. I decided to run away. I packed my bag and set out. I got as far as an unused small porch at the side of our house. Nobody came looking for me and after a while I went back in the house, unpacked and put my stuff away. No one ever knew. Sounds like a 5 or 6 year old, not a teenager, doesn’t it. No plan for where I was going to go, Just a kind of a ‘you’ll be sorry if I run away.’ Lame.

chyna's avatar

Yes, I ran away to my grandmothers house.

Berserker's avatar

I ran away from home when I was a kid lol. About 8 or 9. Living with my mom at the time, and I skipped school for like three days straight. But eventually the school phoned home of course, wondering where the hell I was. Now, my mom worked some few days a week only, but it wasn’t a fixed schedule. The days were always different. So in those three days what I did was pretend to go to school, and I’d come sneaking back home in early noon to see if she was home or not. She wasn’t the first two days, so I sat around at home, acting normal when she got back. But on the third day lol she was home, and before I got anywhere in the yard she threw the door open and is like WHAT THE FUCK HAVE YOU BEEN DOING lol. So I just darted off lol. She tried to come after me but it was Winter and she just had a bathrobe on. So, I was so scared that I decided to run away to my dad’s place. Problem is, he lived in another neighborhood, and I couldn’t have walked all the way there even if I had known how to get there. But damn it, I managed!
I barely spoke a single word of English, but I managed to gather information about what bus to take to get there. I knew the number and the place name next to it. My milk money wasn’t enough to cover the fare, but an old lady actually gave me what I needed for the bus after I bummed it offa her lol. She seemed extremely concerned about seeing a little girl asking for bus money, I guess I would be too. I told her I was running away because I didn’t want my mom to beat the crap out of me, and she offered to call the cops. I was like NO WAY they’ll bring me back lol. So, she gave me the money and that was it, far as I ever knew.
I never thought to ask later, but I wonder if my mom had called the police or not. Those 48 hour waitings for missing kids don’t apply if you KNOW what the kid did, right? But anyways, I didn’t encounter any police officer during that ordeal.
I eventually made it to my dad’s hood, although the bus ride was so long, and the road taken was different from what I recalled when I was driven to my dad’s place every second weekend. I was SURE I took the wrong bus, and asked the driver, and he’s like naaah right bus, now sit the hell down lol.
So I knock on my dad’s door in his apartment building after walking some ways to reach it, and when he answered I’m all like I wanna come live with you and started bawling lol. But, of course, he couldn’t do that, so he had to call my mom to tell her I was there. But I spent the rest of the day there, he called his girlfriend over, they cheered me up, we had dinner then my mom came to get me and I was all like, this sucks.
Surprisingly though, she did absolutely nothing, she barely mentioned it, and never brought this up again. I did hear her talking to others about it, and for those who cared to listen, she insisted that I ran away because I was afraid of the consequences that the school would throw at me. At the time, my school was the last fucking thing in my mind lol.
A year later though, my dad won my custody in court. About four years later, I had to go live in group homes. XD

JARRED XD

And of course, I ran away from those all the time too. But I was in my teens, it was way easier and it almost became a habit lol. My dad didn’t mistreat me like my mom did, but he couldn’t keep a job and drank too much, so I was always put in some group home while he ’‘smartened up’’, got a job and all. So it was an on and off thing. But I didn’t enjoy the group homes, and I always left for like three, four days, sometimes a whole week, and just lived outside or crashed at random people’s places. Sometimes I came back of my own accord, got in trouble and grounded. Some few times, when I had to deal with the police due to underage drinking or just being an idiot with a bunch of other idiots, they’d see in their computers that I was ’‘missing’’ and brought me back.

I went to visit my dad sometimes too, but not often at all, because in cases like this, he had to notify either the group home or child services where I was if he knew I ran off, and usually he was the first to be called when I did run away. Sometimes I lied to him and said I was just visiting lol. Once, one lady and another older girl from the group home I was staying at were driving around, and they happened to see me during one of my escapades. So they pull up and go, okay, get in. I did what I had done that time I ran away when I was a kid; I just bolted lol. But it wasn’t too bad in the group home escapes, I had fun pissing em off and hanging out with punks all day. It’s not like that story when I was little, and completely terrified lol.
I guess my teen escapades really aren’t running away; I mean I stayed more or less in the areas. Just breaching curfews for a real long time. But it’s close enough haha.

Also this post is way too fucking long. Story of my damn life. XD

Ladymia69's avatar

Damn, @Symbeline ,what a delinquent. I share similar stories. What language did you speak if not English?

Berserker's avatar

French. I knew ’‘some’’ English, at least enough so that people got the jist of what I was saying lol.
And very glad to meet another fellow delinquent. :)

Ladymia69's avatar

Etes-vous Canadienne-Francais?

Berserker's avatar

Je suis née en France. My family moved to Manitoba in Canada when I was six. In my early 20’s I moved to Québec. So now my French is riddled with redneck englishism and a buncha cool swear words, tabarnak. XD

Berserker's avatar

How come you know some French anyways? Where’d you learn that?

Neizvestnaya's avatar

No but I thought about it a lot, from about 7yrs old on up through high school. I never did because I figured I do myself more harm than good and couldn’t stomach the humiliating high chance of having to go back home, more humble than ever.

My plan instead was to go to work early while still in school, hoard money and purchased/hidden household items until I could afford to move out and not go back. It worked.

cak's avatar

I wasnt a teen. I was a snotty 10 year old.

I was so sad, we had just moved and I missed my friends and family. I was so upset with my mother, she had a “get over it and move on with life” attitude.

I packed my nightgown and some clothes…and my monopoly game. I was 10. I crawled out of the doggie door and started off down the block. Unfortunately, I had no plan and our nosy new neighbor called my mother, explaining my great escape. She picked me up down the block and grounded me. She told me how selfish I was being.

My dad’s talk was more understanding. He took me out for a milkshake and a long talk.

buster's avatar

I ran away from Tennesee to a beach in Florida when I was 16. I got a lob four hours acting moving there setting up umbrellas chairs and renting them. My coworker close to my age and his dad took me in that night snd i stayed ther no problems, a free meal evrrynight, and cash money evreyday, I made tons of girly friends. My mom was sure pissed when I showed up a month later without ever letting her know where I was.

Ladymia69's avatar

@Symbeline Took four years of it in middle/high school, and have seen lots of French movies!

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