Never kissed a boy and 15 and my boyfriend wants to kiss me. What do I do?

The first question you have to answer is, do you want to kiss him? If you do, then read on. If you don’t, say you aren’t ready. Don’t feel pressured to do anything you don’t feel ready for.

If you are ready, keep this in mind, you will be fine. He is probably as nervous as you are. Just take it slow. You don’t need to jump in with a huge passionate kiss. Just kiss him gently and perhaps and especially if he is more experienced let him guide the whole thing. Again though, if you are uncomfortable with anything, say no. One of the real keys to success when kissing is to relax. There is no “right way”. If you are tense though, that will come through in your lips.

I don’t want to give you a list of rules on how to give the perfect kiss because what is perfect for me, may not be for you. I promise though, you will work it out.

If you feel you’re ready to kiss him, just relax and enjoy it. My first ‘real’ kiss was pretty funny (we both wore braces), but it was still fun!

There is no “right way” to kiss someone. All you need is patience. Start with little pecks on the lips if your not ready to go any further. It doesn’t really take practice, it just takes some getting used to….Eventually it’ll become more like an enjoyable rhythm.

It’s in his kiss.

You know what Andy Hardy used to say, well no you probably never heard of Andy Hardy, but he always said, it’s just good clean fun. So I would suggest you stop worrying and just kiss away. But be careful, kissing can often lead to more than kissing and that is when you get into trouble!

The braces should be fine, just don’t mash your teeth together. Yeah, just go with it! If you like him and you trust him, it’ll be fine. Don’t try to think about your technique, think about what you’ve seen in movies, etc.

Whatever you do, don’t jam your tongue in his mouth. More than a peck is nice, but I recommend keeping it just lips for starters. For me too much tongue is really the only way someone can be bad at kissing. Hopefully he won’t do this!

hahah thanks and yeah i have never heard of Andy Hardy, our relationship is like sorta a secret only close mates know about it :)

You are familiar with baseball, right? First base, second base, third base and Home Run!

Your first kiss should be a moment to always remember. This is first base. You are 15, so let first base be your kiss and time to stop.

I think you get the message here with first, second, third base and home run. Correct?

If you find yourself wanting to go to second base, call the umpire and throw him out of the game.

Stop means stop and it’s up to you to make this choice.

me and my boyfriend are getting together tomorrow and i know he is planning on kissing me :/

Enjoy the moment. You will remember this night for the rest of your life.

Have you heard the oldies song, STOP(In The Name Of Love)? By The Supremes.

Check it out on Youtube and listen to the words. This song fits your situation for tonight.

haha yeah i have heard that song my pop sings it to me :P
im excited but nervous. What if i stuff it up with my braces geting in the way?

He knows you wear braces, right? Upfront, tell him to be gentle, that braces cost a fortune and you want your future smile to be just right for him. He will love you to death for making this comment to him and he will respect you for it.

Just let Mother Nature takes its own course. You are an intelligent girl, so just be you.

Pucker up baby, enjoy ;¬} Oh & welcome to the madhouse…..err, I mean fluther :¬)

Honey, I was in your spot when I was your age. It usually just happens. You don’t really have to think about it. If anything, you’ll just have to reciprocate what he does to you and you’ll have no trouble doing that. Just don’t be wet and sloppy!

If you feel ” :/ ” about kissing, maybe you shouldn’t let him do it yet. If he tries, dodge it and tell him you’re not ready yet. Don’t rush into it if you’re unsure!

Do you all really remember your first kiss? Mine must not have been very momentous, I truly can’t recall, heheh!

Good for you @Jay484, ehehe, I was sort of wondering about the folks closer to my age, if they still remember.