Ladies, I'd like to know what in a man turns you on. Men, what about your women?

Now I mean to keep this PG rated, so no details, please. I’d like to know what your turn-ons are and turn-offs, specifically towards men. I’m searching for answers more to the tune of psychology, but physical traits are ok too. If you’re not hetero, what about your partner(s) do you like and dislike? I’m sorry for asking such a personal question, but it was one nagging at my mind.