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(NSFW) Is it weird to not masturbate?

Asked by minniemau5 (432points) April 19th, 2011

I can’t do it. I never have. I just have this mental block that will not allow me to. I don’t know if it’s that I don’t know where to begin or lack of libido but I’ve never really done it and I have absolutely no desire too. I have sex just fine, but I just cannot pleasure myself.

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wundayatta's avatar

If you’re happy with your situation, nothing needs to change. It’s ok not to masturbate if you don’t want to. Don’t worry about it being weird. In matters like these, there are many different personal preferences and no one should be judged for a preference that doesn’t hurt anyone else.

KateTheGreat's avatar

It’s not weird at all. Some people enjoy it, others don’t. As long as you don’t have trouble with sex, you’re alright!

Seelix's avatar

If you don’t want to do it, don’t do it! I don’t think it’s all that weird – I don’t do it very often.

pshizzle's avatar

It’s your personal choice.

Coloma's avatar

We may be all flowers in the same garden, but our varieties are infinite.
Some of us need lots of sexual watering and others are drought tolerant. lol

If your regular sex life is satisfying then don’t worry about it. On the other hand, it might be a growing experience if you are open to exploration.
Your call, no right or wrong.

Blondesjon's avatar

Nothing wrong with it at all, my friend. In fact, I wish I had the same predilection.

it would free up sooo much of my day . . .

marinelife's avatar

Then why worry about it? Just let yourself be.

MacBean's avatar

It’s a little weird, but that’s okay. Everyone’s different and as long as you’re happy and not hurting anyone, it’s nobody’s business. :)

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