If your spouse cheated on you would you ever want to meet the other man/woman?

This is a situation where the marriage eventually ended, not necessarily because of the infidelity, and the ex-spouses are on speaking terms. The affair was emotional and never sexual and the ex-spouse was aware of what happened. Would you be interested in meeting the person your spouse cheated with? On the flip side, if you were the other man/woman, would you ever be willing to meet the ex-spouse in order to apologize for what happened?