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(NSFW) How much or how little would you like to be "handled" in bed?

Asked by mazingerz88 (18495 points ) May 17th, 2011

The norm usually is that guys do most of the grabbing, squeezing and licking during sex while women are in the receiving end. But personally, I believe it could be easily be the other way around these days or it could be just about the same coming from both sides. But how much things have changed in your opinion? Are there new trends out there?

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Ajulutsikael's avatar

I think it depends on the individual’s personality. Now people are more open and accepting of a strong female that likes to dominate. More men are open to women who take charge in bed as well.

There are times where I take charge and gets “handsy” and there are times I rather he take charge.

I’m sure there are trends out there, but I’m pretty much secluded from trends so I wouldn’t know.

Jude's avatar

We are equal opportunity grabbers, squeezers, lickers and biters.

And, spankers and slappers.

We’re both females.

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ragingloli's avatar

Ballgag, blindfold, neck collar with attached chain, hands tied behind back, being taken from behind. Hell yeah.

wundayatta's avatar

Another egalitarian here. Of course, that’s in the ideal world. The real world is rarely ideal. But there is one thing—I will not ask anyone to do anything she does not want to do. It is very important to me that whatever we do is done totally willingly. Especially if it’s what @ragingloli is looking for. ;)

Ajulutsikael's avatar

@ragingloli sounds like my kind of play. I have bags full of accessories and toys.

lucillelucillelucille's avatar

I like to slap him silly while wearing a chicken suit. Nothing else will cockadoodle doooo

Cruiser's avatar

@lucillelucillelucille What is it with costume outerwear?? My S/O likes to wield a rubber mace wearing a Sasquatch outfit and a welders mask! Fun stuff I say!

lucillelucillelucille's avatar

@Cruiser You haven’t lived until you try fencing gear

LuckyGuy's avatar

I like being held.

Cruiser's avatar

@lucillelucillelucille That is old hat for me…try fencing gear underwater now with SCUBA, that is some real fun!

ucme's avatar

Oh I like to be handled, absolutely! Must be with care though, i’m fragile stuff me.
Then I like to hump her like a shit house door in a hurricane!! XD

Scooby's avatar

Tie me up tie me down, when she’s done it’s my turn to help myself :-/ a little give & take, it’s all good fun…….
She likes to be in control though, don’t all women?..... :-/

Jude's avatar

@Scooby why always this? :-/

6rant6's avatar

@lucillelucillelucille I am finding what you wrote difficult to understand.

Who wears the chicken suit, exactly?

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lucillelucillelucille's avatar

@Ah say! @6rant6 ,Ah do! XD

pshizzle's avatar

Men should give the arousal. After all, it benefits everyone. Women can also thank you by you know….

Jude's avatar

@lucille Miss Prissy!
‘Yeee-yussss’!

DominicX's avatar

I like to be manhandled….

6rant6's avatar

@lucillelucillelucille I see who you did there.

lucillelucillelucille's avatar

@Jude She scared me alittle XD
@6rant6 Ah know! :)
@Cruiser Right now?? :)

Cruiser's avatar

@lucillelucillelucille The water’s warm…dive right in!!

lucillelucillelucille's avatar

@Cruiser That is painful….and so is this

Scooby's avatar

@Jude

Just a little nonchalant expression I use from time to time :-/

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