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(NSFW) What is the longest dry spell you've endured (details inside)

Asked by FluffyChicken (5353 points ) July 19th, 2011

What’s the longest you’ve gone without sex, post virginity?

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everephebe's avatar

Oh wait I just counted it was 4 months but it felt like much much more.

ANef_is_Enuf's avatar

Maybe a couple of months. I dunno. I don’t recall any particularly excruciating dry spells in my past.

MRSHINYSHOES's avatar

A little over 2 weeks. Almost unbearable.

Seaofclouds's avatar

Over a year while single just because I was single. Eight and a half months while in a relationship due to a deployment.

FluffyChicken's avatar

@Seaofclouds to my hormone riddled mind, that sounds like torture.

filmfann's avatar

2 years. My soul was in chaos after several bad break-ups.

Seaofclouds's avatar

@FluffyChicken While I was single, it wasn’t a big deal since I had no interest in casual sex. The deployment was a bit harder, but we still did other things to take care of that aspect of our marriage. ;)

Uberwench's avatar

Eight hours.

FluffyChicken's avatar

@Seaofclouds I am not sure right now if I’m interested in casual sex, considering my emotional state. I think I mostly miss sex with a certain someone. But I find myself horny pretty much constantly now that I’m single. sooooo frustrating.

@Uberwench Classy.:D

JessicaRTBH's avatar

Three years.

Uberwench's avatar

@FluffyChicken That might be a slight exaggeration. Definitely never more than a few days, though.

FluffyChicken's avatar

@Uberwench I assumed as much. It’s fun to play along though.

Blueroses's avatar

A little over a year. I just call it my voyage of self-discovery or The Duracell Age.

crisw's avatar

About a year, maybe a year and a half. My FWB was off doing field research.

Hibernate's avatar

Around three years but I don’t remember why.

Russell_D_SpacePoet's avatar

2 years. I guess because I’m picky. Also I’m comfortable with being alone.

ucme's avatar

Damn, my watch seems to have stopped…..

Plucky's avatar

It’s been about 4 or 5 years. My partner lost her sex-drive after all her initial Lupus treatments. Before, and during that, I had brain tumors and was not supposed to do anything that got my blood pumping too fast.
Currently, it can be difficult for me at times (I have a rather high libido); but I manage to survive.

….Now everyone knows I’m under-sexed (blushing). :P

Blackberry's avatar

Just a few months.

Leanne1986's avatar

About 2 months. A relationship had just ended and it was two months before I was back in a relationship again. I’ve been in the same relationship since.

Facade's avatar

I’ve been in a relationship since I first had intercourse, but we were doing the long distance thing for about a year, so there were a few months here and there where we didn’t have sex.

Seelix's avatar

Probably 10 months or so.

LuckyGuy's avatar

I must be a lucky guy. Until my surgery it was never more than a week, ever.
Six weeks after surgery per doctor’s recomendations.

Scooby's avatar

Well over a year, maybe even two :-/
It’s not something I need anymore but it’s nice when it comes along :-/
Ditto : Russell D SpacePoet

WillWorkForChocolate's avatar

About a year, directly after the loss of virginity. My first time was ghastly, so I didn’t really even want sex for quite some time. Between relationships, it was typically only a couple of months, and I would just make out with my BOB. =0)

redfeather's avatar

3–4 months

wundayatta's avatar

About a year and a few months—after my first lover broke up with me. We had been together for a year and a half or so. It was pretty hellish. Later on there were periods of months where I didn’t get any. I was married at that time. It was a problem. Sometimes, when you are not feeling the love, your desire disappears, too.

KateTheGreat's avatar

I went a year, once. It.Was.Awful.

uberbatman's avatar

6 months of hell

Porifera's avatar

I can go without for a long, long time. I’m single, very picky, and don’t like sleeping around.

Blackberry's avatar

Sexual tension is real, and it hurts…...a lot.

creative1's avatar

Over 7 long years, I stopped dating because someone I was dating cheated on me and I found I had trust issues when I tried to date so I took a break but my short break just kept going it just became easy not dating that I didn’t go back to dating for 7 years.

Simone_De_Beauvoir's avatar

I don’t know, couple of months.

sleepdoc's avatar

6 months

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