(NSFW) What happens during a lap dance?

I want to know what happens when a man is given a lap dance. I had a really weird moment the other night. This guy and I finally made things official and we both had to go to a bachelor and bachelorette party because our friends were getting married.

We celebrated in Las Vegas spending time together and then realized we were both late for the parties so then we went our separate ways.

I ended up getting a lap dance at a male strip club. It’s not as bad as I thought it’d be. There’s rules…they can’t really grope you in personal areas, you can’t touch their privates, they don’t show you their privates, and when they dance on you there’s no groin to groin contact but I mean they kinda grind on your leg lol.It was really weird…

Anyways, my new boyfriend ended up being super drunk that night and passed out. His friends said he was passed out and some stripper was on him for a long time giving him a lap dance… I was wondering if strippers put their breasts on a man’s face or what?

I’m not really angry because we didn’t discuss this before we made things official. But in the future I don’t think I’d like him getting lap dances and I won’t get one either. Is that wrong for him to ask to not get a lap dance if he goes to another friend’s bachelor party?