Should I get my hair done at this salon after an awkward okcupid exchange?
I am interested in having my hair cut and dyed at this one specific salon in my area. (Also, my boyfriend and I use okcupid to meet girls for threesomes.)
About a month ago, a random girl messaged me on there to express her interest. We found her unattractive, so we did not respond.
A few weeks later, I was viewing the bios on the website of this hair salon and realized that the random unattractive girl is one of the stylists there.
I decided the best thing to do would be to respond to her message to smooth things over from having not responded earlier and then make an appointment at the salon. Last week, I sent her a message:
Thanks for the message a few weeks ago! I totally thought I responded, but it looks like I didn’t – sorry about that! I realized because I was looking at your salon to get my hair done and saw you on it. :) And I wondered what ever happened with our messages. Anyway, hi! Want me to come in and get my hair done?
This is a lie; I am not actually interested, but I thought it would be awkward to go into her place of employment having not responded to her okcupid message, so I was just trying to be nice. I do not actually care if she is the stylist who does my hair; in fact, I would prefer someone else did my hair to avoid awkward/pretend conversation and flirting.
She has not responded, and she has been on okcupid since I sent the message.
I’d still like to make an appointment at her salon, but I’d really like to avoid having an incredibly awkward encounter with her. Thoughts?
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