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(NSFW) What do you think about this? (NSFW)?

Asked by XOIIO (18328points) September 8th, 2011

I’d like honest opinions from people, i was musing with my coworkers quite a while back, joking around about things we want to acheive not jobs or anyhting, but like, sleep with blond twins or something like that, and I figured “Hey, why not try to sleep with someone of every ethnicity before I die?”. Got some good chuckles, some said good idea, it was mostly a joke though. I actually started thinking about it though, I’m not sure how many different ethnicities there are worldwide, and if this was an actual goal, it would me major groups, not like, british american or mixes like that.

Basically, what do you think of this kind of goal? What would you think of someone who was trying to/had acheived it? Also, how many different ethnicities are there? Would it even be possible to do so in a lifetime? It would be more casually as you travel around, not like, hiring a bunch of hookers in one month

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Blondesjon's avatar

Do you actually get laid so easily as to make this even feasible?

Imadethisupwithnoforethought's avatar

I think its good for people to set goals in their lives.

I wouldn’t tell anyone in real life what you were doing. Good luck man!

Michael_Huntington's avatar

You just need a shitload of money and eros guide.

XOIIO's avatar

This isn’t a goal for me, its theoretical. I know i’m not going to have the chance to even get close, even with my sultry seduction I’m not attractive enough XD

*cries

lol

HungryGuy's avatar

I want to sleep with a black Pastafarian quadriplegic amputee…

Sunny2's avatar

Are you after purebreds? Or do you want to go for combinations to increase the size of your field?

XOIIO's avatar

@Sunny2 Well the idea is purebreds, or as close as possible but there are some potent mixes like asian-english XD

Sunny2's avatar

@XOIIO IMO Asian/Black is gorgeous!

Blackberry's avatar

It’s a great journey, I started years ago, but I’m almost done. All I need now is a white woman…....lol.

King_Pariah's avatar

Why not sleep with mixed races so you can knock out several of them at once?

XOIIO's avatar

@King Pariah something just doesn’t feel honest about it lol

marinelife's avatar

I think that any kind of sexual goal like that is awfully shallow.

XOIIO's avatar

@marinelife Keep in mine this is all theoretical, I wouldn’t try it even if i had a chance, let alone now

Cruiser's avatar

Set your sights high and sleep with both a man and woman of each ethnicity…now THAT would be impressive!

wundayatta's avatar

I would say it is one of the more pathetic ideas I have ever heard of. It illustrates the complete separation of sex from personality. It makes it into an acquisitive game. It divorces spirit from soul and body and mind. It is an exercise in dehumanization. Did I say I think it’s a stupid, misguided idea?

It’s easy to love people. Make love to the people you love, not so someone just because they have some specific ethnicity or skin and eye and hair color or language spoken at home. That’s just so shallow and dehumanizing. This idea turns people into mindless fucking machines, devoid of any humanity. None, whatsoever.

Honestly, I don’t understand how people even can think of ideas like this. To think of it, you have to have lost something important inside you. You have to have divorced yourself from love. You have to believe that love and sex have nothing to do with each other. People know this, and they don’t even see the harm it does them. It’s like condition normal to think sex has nothing to do with love, and bodies and minds and souls are separate and separatable things.

But hell. If sex is a counting game and he who fucks the most broads wins, then go for it. Dehumanize as many women as possible. Just realize how pathetic it is that you derive your sense of worth from doing so. And grow up. As soon as you can. Maybe get therapy. Maybe one day you’ll be able to make a real, intimate connection with another human being and discover you’re not alone. But as long as you can even consider this idea, you are alone as alone can be and you will stay that way.

Really, really sad.

XOIIO's avatar

@wundayatta What if I act innocent and get seduced by them, is it okay then?

bob_'s avatar

Also really, really sad: online sexual harassment.

XOIIO's avatar

@bob_ True, thats just pathetic.

wundayatta's avatar

@XOIIO Are you fucking kidding? That’s just as clueless. You are a responsible human being who should know something about being a whole person. If you can get seduced by every girl who sits in your lap (or plants her face there), you are no better than if you try to seduce her just based on her skin color.

It’s just sad.

XOIIO's avatar

@wundayatta It’s a joke, chill out. I’ve never considered this, I know its a shallow and stupid goal in life, i’ve jsut wondered how it would go, thats all.

bkcunningham's avatar

Five thousand, give or take. I’d get a job at the UN and start from there.

XOIIO's avatar

@bkcunningham That supports my thery of it being pretty much impossible.

bkcunningham's avatar

What? The part about getting a job, a job at the UN or the 5000 part?

XOIIO's avatar

@bkcunningham The 5000 different ethnicities.

TheLadyEve's avatar

I would be horrified if I knew that you didn’t sleep with me because you actually liked me, but because you found out I was Latvian (or whatever), and thought “Hey, I haven’t crossed Latvian off my list yet”.

Also, ethnicity is such a problematic construct. Like, if someone’s skin is black, but their family has lived in England for 200 years, are they African or British? How far back do you go in determining “purebreeds”? It’s easier to do someone from every country (though, again, seriously shallow douchebag thing to do).

XOIIO's avatar

@TheLadyEve Meh, I never put much thought into it, just some sleep deprived and not-so-sane musings

mazingerz88's avatar

Buy a lottery ticket. If you win, travel around the world, admire the sights, immerse yourself in every culture you encounter and court, romance and seduce women of great physical and inner beauty. Hear their laughter, touch their hair, caress their lips. Show each of them a good time and fuck em if they wanted to be or let them fuck your brains out. Fall in love. Marry one. Or more. There is absolutely nothing wrong with that. Be a god.

XOIIO's avatar

@mazingerz88 Or go broke buying lottery tickets XD

mazingerz88's avatar

@XOIIO Yes, lol. But seriously, apparently, there’s always a winner so it’s worth playing. You’ll never win but what is 1 dollar for every draw. 15 bucks is good for two months. One early 20’s guy just won 80 million. It could happen. Just not to you. Lol.

XOIIO's avatar

@mazingerz88 Lol! Reminds me of this poster.

wundayatta's avatar

@XOIIO I’m sorry you thought the ‘you” was you. I was referring to the plural you. Not you in specific. Although I can see how you got that impression since you said “I” in the post I was responding to.

The attitude you are hypothesizing is actually far too common to be a joke. I’m glad you don’t subscribe to it, and that all your comments here are jokes having nothing to do with yourself. Just consider me addressing those who actually do have this attitude. As you say. Not you. Right?

XOIIO's avatar

@wundayatta Yeah, its totally ridiculous, I’m surprised that there actually are people like that.

After all we’ve been through together… I thought you knew me better than that XD

wundayatta's avatar

@XOIIO You credit me for having a memory. I don’t. It’s not malicious. I just don’t remember anything I’ve said or that anyone else has said any more. At least, not for more than a few minutes. I don’t even know what the topic of this question is without scrolling back up to the details (since nothing was in the title). I know we’ve said shit to each other before, but I don’t remember what it was. Wait. Aren’t you… um… well, you know—like me? Surely you have memory problems, too?

dreamwolf's avatar

I think you should totally go ahead and follow through with this idea. Write a book about it, let me help you edit, and wreak profits off your experiences. This could be done. Live by this creed when you endeavor upon it. Where there are hotels, there are love tells.

XOIIO's avatar

@dreamwolf lol or write a crummy self help book and make millions.

ucme's avatar

That’s like being on the PGA tour, sinking your balls into holes on every continent.

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