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NSFW question for you if you're attracted to only one gender: do you ever have dreams about the gender you're not attracted to?

Asked by Mariah (19187 points ) September 15th, 2011

If you consider yourself purely gay or purely straight, have you ever had a wet dream about the gender you’re not attracted to?

Please state your gender and the gender you’re attracted to in your answer if you’re comfortable with sharing that.

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Michael_Huntington's avatar

Do you mean normal dreams or wet dreams?

Mariah's avatar

I mean wet dreams; I didn’t think I’d be allowed to say it in the question title so I did a little self-censoring.

ANef_is_Enuf's avatar

This is such a good question. I’m kind of fascinated by people who are strictly attracted to one gender, so I’m really curious to see the responses here. GQ.

rebbel's avatar

In my dreams I have sex with everybody and everything.
I am a mule and they also appear in the dreams.

ucme's avatar

I’m a male & i’m attracted exclusively to females.
Although I did dream of a fishing trip with my Uncle George, is that a wet dream?

Jude's avatar

Gay female and the men have no faces in my dreams. Just big dongs.

ANef_is_Enuf's avatar

Oh wait. This sounds familiar, now that @Jude said something. I am not exclusively attracted to one sex, but the men in my fantasies & dreams don’t have faces, either. The women do.

Prosb's avatar

[Straight] I’m often not myself in dreams, but I’ve never had one where I was attracted to a man.
Although, I’ve been a woman in my dreams attracted to another woman, does that count?

Jude's avatar

@ANef_is_Enuf The women are always cute and the sex, very intimate. The men are faceless and we just knock boots.

zenvelo's avatar

I’m a straight male, I don’t ever recall having a sexual dream with or about a man.

SavoirFaire's avatar

Male, attracted to females.

Nope. I’ve been a Kinsey 0 all my life and never had any kind of sexy dream (wet or dry) about another male. I once had a dream where I was a woman having sex with another woman, however.

Maybe I should ask Fluther what that means. Do we ever get dream interpretation questions? ~

Prosb's avatar

@Jude @ANef_is_Enuf That’s interesting. Men and women always have faces in my dreams.
Animals are generally only silhouettes for me though, unless the animal is huge, with much detail.
(Ex: Me hounding a tiger the size of my garage for info regarding the theft of my pool. (I don’t even have a pool.))

ANef_is_Enuf's avatar

@Prosb the men in my dreams have faces. The men in my sex dreams do not. It’s pretty much exactly as @Jude describes her experience.

Prosb's avatar

@ANef_is_Enuf Oh I see, well, I’ll let you know if I have a wet dream involving men, and if I could remember if they have faces in it.

muppetish's avatar

I have a rather peculiar answer to this question. I often have dreams that I am not the biological sex that I was born as. In those dreams, I have been in relationships with both men and women. But the same is not the case in dreams in which I am my biological sex.

Jude's avatar

A dream with Neffie and Seelix would be interesting. Just sayin’.

FutureMemory's avatar

It’s always just about our dongs, isn’t it =(

Zaku's avatar

I’m a man attracted to women and no, I haven’t, or if I did, I don’t remember.

everephebe's avatar

Interesting question. I’m male and straight, and it’s always been women in those dreams.

But if I had dreamed about men I don’t think it would mean anything really, it just hasn’t happened yet. I am pretty damn straight so maybe that is ‘confirmation’, I dunno.~ I’ve had at least one wet dream that I can remember where I wasn’t attracted to the woman so much but… that’s about it. I have plenty of sex in non-wet dreams though and yes always women never men. But really so what? I mean they are just dreams…

GracieT's avatar

I can, of course, only speak for myself, but I (a woman) am emotionally attracted to several of my female friends. However, the thought of being with them physically turns my stomach. I think that homosexuality is normal for some people, but it isn’t in the cards for me.

redfeather's avatar

I’m straight, attracted to the men’s. And I had a lesbian dream about a friend of a friend. I told her when we were tipsy at a party and she yelled, “I’m flattered!” and then kissed me right on the lips! But I’m still straight.

mostly

Hypocrisy_Central's avatar

Nope, never happened. Don’t think it ever will either.

wundayatta's avatar

I’m a man who absolutely loves and adores women. I also don’t remember any dreams. Certainly not any wet dreams. I only get sex in real life or fantasy life. No where in between.

poisonedantidote's avatar

I can recall two specific events when I have had odd dreams for a straight guy.

I once had a dream that I had a sex change operation, and it was cool having a vagina for a few minutes, but when I wanted them to change me back, they told me my cock was long gone and there was no going back and I got very pissed off.

One other time, a generic dream generated girl I was “kissing/doing stuff with” turned in to one of my male friends thus causing me to freak out.

Thats as close as it gets.

FutureMemory's avatar

Never say never, Hypo!

KatawaGrey's avatar

Well, I’m a bisexual woman, but a big part of my realizing that I am bisexual was dreams.

It seemed that whenever I had a sex dream about a female, I really liked it, and not just because there was sex involved. I liked it because I wanted it to happen in real life. Those dreams awakened different sorts of desires in me and I started “letting” myself have those desires when I was awake, with actual females and, lo and behold, it was way more awesome than dreams.

HungryGuy's avatar

I’m a male, attracted only to females. As far as I know, my wet dreams have only been about females.

Though as most of us know, we don’t remember the vast majority of our dreams. Just sayin’...

DominicX's avatar

I can’t recall ever having a sexual dream about a girl. The first wet dream I ever had was when I was 13 and it involved a boy I knew and had a crush on. In fact that was one of the earliest indicators that I was gay…

AshLeigh's avatar

Straight Female. :)
No… I don’t. Haha.

Seelix's avatar

I consider myself straight in that I’ve only ever had intimate contact with males. But I often find females attractive, and I sometimes have sexy dreams about women. I don’t think about what that means to the label I’ve placed on myself, because there’s no real need for it in the first place.

zooloft's avatar

My label:Heteroflexible and identify as straight. I male and have had dreams involving other men although infrequent.

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