What are some criteria by which you decide who/what you would like to become? Can you trace the influences upon them?

Self-development, social development. Influences over reason, blended with questions about integrity.

Simply reflect on how you decide on who you’d like to become. Stages of thinking, criteria, details. If you’ve never thought about it before, try to trace the influences behind desires to become X,Y,Z.

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