Have you ever been falsely accused of being something deemed socially negative?
Has anyone ever accused you of being something you’re not?
People accuse me of the following things…
They say I am a bigot and a racist (Which I am not)
They call me a pervert (Because I saw someone younger than me).
They call me a whore (For having PRIVATE relations with someone I assumed at the time was my boyfriend). Which are none of anyone else’s business really.
*How would you like it if you had the world in your bedroom?
They call me a hateful person (when I’m really just angry for being constantly called all of the above by people who rather than ask, just blindly assume for their own amusement.)
And of course finally to ice the cake I get called a liar to negate anything I might say to defend myself.
How do you stop people from calling you things that you aren’t? What do you do when nobody will allow you to prove them wrong?
Alot of the time I find myself getting into baited conversations because nobody can just come right out and ask me a decent normal question, which causes problems sometimes because we’re only human, and they believe I am stupid and don’t see it coming; It’s not right and I wish they would all stop. They really do not know what you’re talking about.