Very [ NSFW ] - How does one get or give a good polishing?

I know it differs from one person to another, their preferences on how to get it and how to give it. How much pressure is involved, when to apply it and where, how fast and slow the strokes, the amount of saliva lubrication through dripping or spitting, the use of the hands, the fingers, the swipe, the slap, the strangling and the ultimate release response, smile, swallow, spit or jizz lathering the phallus and repeat?

I knew a woman once who during ejaculation, doubles, no, triples the pleasure by squeezing the base, blows and sucks the head rapidly or something like that, ( jeez, we should have videotaped that ) anyway so, what do you think?