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Question about au naturel beauty and make-up beauty?

Asked by rebbel (35549points) October 23rd, 2011

My girlfriend will take a left turn if I tell her that “really, we should go left here!” and she’ll put her hand in a box if I tell her that “no really, there is no spider in it…”
In short, she believes me.
Now, regularly I’ll tell her that she is beautiful sometimes she’ll ask how she looks (when she get dressed for an evening out, etc.), other times I tell her without her asking.
I tell her that I even like her looks more without her putting make-up.
She loves to hear that, obviously.
But.
Then we pull the door closed and go out right after my au naturel declaration and then I notice she put some make-up on after all.
Now, she explained to me that she trusts my opinion that she looks a beaut but she needs to put at least some camouflage and/or eye-liner, to feel (completely) secure.
So I ask all Jellies who wear make-up: Does your (in)security weighs heavier than someone elses your partner’s or friend’s opinion?

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