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NSFW Ladies Can you reach satisfaction using just your man?

Asked by BeccaBoo (2725points) October 24th, 2011

Is it possible? By this I mean, just you and he with out stimulating your Clitoris. Looking at the research I have done there seems to be a lot about positioning (although they say about women on top or being very close to your man, which sometimes is just impossible), toys and hand management etc.

Now I know being a woman myself, that unless I stimulate my clitoris in someway then an orgasm is a no go, I have spoken to a few women about this and they say they same, unless there is stimulation to the clitoris then an orgasm just does not happen for them. Certain positions (woman on top or partner laying really close) are the only ways women tend to achieve this.

So girls am I doing something wrong? Is it possible? Your thoughts would be good on this.

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Jude's avatar

Nope (not for me).

thesparrow's avatar

Lol. Of course I’m satisfied with just my man.

Londongirl's avatar

Wow…I am happy with just a guy.

ANef_is_Enuf's avatar

Yes, I am one of those women that is able to reach orgasm vaginally. However, I have always understood it to be quite common that many women need clitoral stimulation in order to climax. I don’t think you’re doing anything wrong, I think this is very common.

BeccaBoo's avatar

I find this so intriguing, as primarily the Virgina was made to hold a baby, so there are not very many nerve endings in it to stimulate, so what fascinates me is how a woman can actually achieve this without stimulating the clitoris?

ANef_is_Enuf's avatar

Well, the vagina doesn’t hold a baby. The uterus does.

BeccaBoo's avatar

Yes and where is the uterus located?

BeccaBoo's avatar

Its ALL part of the vagina or definition of! The female sexual organs.

ANef_is_Enuf's avatar

@BeccaBoo but there is a huge difference when it comes to sexual pleasure.

Neizvestnaya's avatar

Nope and that’s why a position like doggy doesn’t do anything for me.

BeccaBoo's avatar

@ANef_is_Enuf Well obviously, but then thats my point!

thesparrow's avatar

It really depends though. And I think when women talk about having a vaginal orgasm there’s actually scientific work done suggesting that the G-spot is just an extension of the clitoris.

WillWorkForChocolate's avatar

Nope, I do not have an orgasm unless my husband goes down on me or I use a vibrator. But it’s not him; he has tried so hard to find my g-spot, God bless him. I’ve had several partners and it’s never worked for me. I’m just another woman who can’t get off without clitoral stimulation.

Seaofclouds's avatar

Yes, I can reach an orgasm from penetration, without clitoral stimulation.

everephebe's avatar

Am I just being retarded an idiot but doesn’t penetration usually include clitoral stimulation albeit indirect ? You know technically speaking…

ANef_is_Enuf's avatar

@everephebe depends on the position.

everephebe's avatar

And the member I imagine?^ :p

Aethelflaed's avatar

Hmmm. I don’t think I can reach orgasm with just vaginal penetration, out of kinda nowhere… But maybe if you get me all warmed up with doing stuff to my neck and earlobe, then I could. And I rarely get to the point of being at vaginal penetration (especially via phallus and not fingers) without some clit stimulation in the foreplay. But I guess I count all of those (neck, ears, clit, fingering, etc) as being part of my partner, so I would phrase it as “with just my man”, because my partner is just so much more than the phallus. But, some positions do make a big difference (though, exactly what positions seem to differ from person to person).

ETpro's avatar

My mom always advised me, “Son, when all else fails, use your head.” I am pretty sure she didn’t have sex in mind, but when no position seemed to hit the magic spot, I decided to put her advice to the test in that department. Works every time.

OpryLeigh's avatar

I need clitoral stimulation to reach orgasm. Both my boyfriend and I have searched for my G-Spot but, although we both know where it is (I can feel it!) it doesn’t quite bring me to orgasm.

jonsblond's avatar

hmmm…..that’s weird. I answered this question yesterday but my answer isn’t here.

Yes, with the right position and movement.

thesparrow's avatar

The last time we had sex I had to drag his face down into my crotch.

Dr_Lawrence's avatar

I always consider my tongue as a part of me for my wife’s pleasure.

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