NSFW: What makes for fun "intimate relation"?
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January 26th, 2012
There is a difference between “good” and “fun”. Obviously you can have both; and that may very well be a requirement for some to consider sex “fun”... But, one doesn’t necessarily constitute the other.
Lets me put it this way… Shawshank Redemption is pretty unanimously reviewed as a “GREAT” movie. BUT it is not a fun movie.
What mood/moves do you like in the sac, where afterwards, perhaps even entirely disregarding sexual satisfaction, you’re left thinking “he/she is SO fun to have sex with!”?
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Clown porn playing in the background.
When the two people involved are so comfortable with each other they can experiment and have fun without it being awkward. Small mistakes are laughed at instead of adding pressure.
Some kind of unusually endowed yo-yo?
Cute little pet names for each other that make you giggle, or other things that make you laugh and have fun. I prefer playful sex over serious sex any day.
Goes to happy place
Anyway – I’m back. Fun sex is doing anything and not being judged or judging the other person. There is this one guy that not only is the sex great, but it is damn fun! We laugh, he throws me around, we play fight. I don’t worry about what body part is imperfect or how I look – it’s just FUN! Where is his number
I have always thought sex was sort of fun on a warm summer afternoon, with the windows open, and only a bottom sheet on on the bed.
When there’s another person with me at the time.
Trying out ‘impossible’ positions.
Impersonating porn actors (their stance, their vocabulaire, their tone).
And of course: hand puppets.
Handcuffs… and loud playlist of sex music… hot candle wax… and maybe some candy corn and space boots.
and many positions that may not necessarily involve the candy corn and switch the space boots for stilettos…
If one of you farts and you can laugh, you are having fun sex.
Fun sex for me is role playing. Pretending we are someone else and trying to keep a straight face doing it (which we almost can never do!) Fun sex is experimenting and feeling completely unjudged about your things like weight and stretch marks. Fun sex is watching porn while we do it and try to do everything they are doing on the screen (it’s like a porn version of “Simon Says”)
@janbb So TRUE! And if he puts you in handcuffs and loses the key, you don’t even get mad, you just can’t stop laughing.
@HungryGuy I think she means mutual fun, lol
Anyway something I like to do is involve food. Like a cake or fruit. and getting it smeared all over each other. Sorta like in the movie Assassin in Love. But never pastrami, that’s a huge no no. Just watch Seinfield to figure out why.
Another one I enjoy is blindfolding her and then gently tying her naked spread eagle to say… the stainless steel refrigerator. Then bring out some, say strawberries and a nice chocolate fondue. Dip the strawberries in, feed it to her while deliberately dripping some on to her and then lick/kiss it up. Or slowly and gently get a strawberry dipped chocolate run down her body followed of course by gentle licks, kisses, and bites to clean it up (definitely leaving hickies while you do it) working your way down alway the way to her pearly gates with special attention to the pearl. Repeat for awhile, get her very aroused but never, NEVER, let her climax. And then let her loose and be her boy toy for a while. (Note: something rowdy may come your way with a slap or two and some hard bites)
Fun sex? Well…first of all both people have to have a fun side, depressed people just don’t have fun. lol
Then, knocking furniture over and catching the curtains on fire with unattended candles always adds a “spark” to the sparkle.
Hot tubs and swimming pools are right up there on the list for wet & wild. :-D
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