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(NSFW) Ever worry that the nude photos that you sent via the web or cell are going to come back and bite you?

Asked by Jude (31977 points ) February 29th, 2012

At the hands of a bitter ex, say.

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Blackberry's avatar

Nope. We all see each other almost naked during the Summer, anyway. I wouldbe more worried about an employer seeing them or something.

Aethelflaed's avatar

Nope. It wasn’t my face I was taking a picture of.

Jude's avatar

Oh, right. GA. ^^

jonsblond's avatar

If you don’t want it to come back and bite you in the ass, don’t put it out there. :P

FutureMemory's avatar

What @Aethelflaed said. Only one person has naughty pics of me, and since I have pics of them as well, it’s a sort of cold war scenario – mutually assured destruction if either one does anything :P

But, I would never betray the trust of anyone that has been so kind as to show me their ass, whether they have pics of me or not.

nikipedia's avatar

Nah. I have nothing to be ashamed of.

KoleraHeliko's avatar

Fun question. Turns out the only pictures of me of this nature were taken prior to me being over the age of consent. If someone wants to wave them around, they can go for it. Good luck to them.

deni's avatar

Yes I have worried that, but not too much. In high school some photos that I probably shouldn’t have sent to begin with ended up circulating among a certain group of guys and of course caused a bit of a rift but it really didn’t bother me that much. It wasn’t like some of those sextings you hear about where a photo of some girls vagina ends up on everyones phone. I don’t do vagina shots and I think boobs are nothing to be ashamed of so whatever!

ETpro's avatar

That’s about the last thing I worry about. By the time they invented the Internet I was way past the age where I had any desire to show others what I look like nude. :-)

King_Pariah's avatar

I don’t send em. I hoard them :D

Imadethisupwithnoforethought's avatar

Would it be within the Fluther Guidelines just to ask people to send me nude pictures? I feel jealous right now.

Aethelflaed's avatar

@Imadethisupwithnoforethought You know that Google will let you access a huge, giant, near infinite amount of free porn, right?

Jenniehowell's avatar

Not to tell my age but all the nude pics of me worth showing weren’t digital – more like Polaroid – eek!

And if/when I ever run for office I’ll likely make my announcement by saying I’m the chic to vote for & before we get into the process too far you should know – there’s naked pics of me out there from a time when I was hotter than I am now, I have smoked weed, I am a lesbian, I fully support folks having multiple spouses & I see nothing wrong with swingers or freaky parties & events where I could eat a tasty morsel of food off a hot naked chic. That said – vote for me if you believe in full freedom & whatever you do don’t post before & after shots of my naked ass unless it’s for the purpose of torturing a POW or something. Yikes!!

linguaphile's avatar

No nekkid pictures of me out there so no worries there.

I know a girl who collects pictures of guys she knows; she bribes their girlfriends to forward their pictures to her and many of them do, or she flat out asks her guy friends for pictures. She has over 80. I.C.K. I’d be worried if I was one of those guys!

deni's avatar

@linguaphile Whats the point? She sounds like a WEIRDO.

Kardamom's avatar

No. Never sent or contemplated sending these types of photos before. Also, the only thing I ever use my cell phone for (which is only for emergencies and to call when I will be late) is making phone calls. Never sent a photo or a text and never plan to.

King_Pariah's avatar

@deni future black mail perhaps?

linguaphile's avatar

@deni She IS beyond weird in many ways. I just know her, I don’t associate with her XD

FutureMemory's avatar

@Imadethisupwithnoforethought Dude, PM me…thinking about giving a seminar.

“How to get nakie pics without even trying 101”

janbb's avatar

Well – I don’t do it.

Randy's avatar

I’ve had a few exs that I shared an awful breakup with but I deleted their nudies. The way I figure it, they were skanky enough that it would actually help them if their nudes were posted somewhere. Of course there are a few sweet ones that I would feel horrible for doing that too.

@Imadethisupwithnoforethough, Work offshore. I’ve never had so many ladies want to send me naked pictures of them. I don’t get it but I’m not ungrateful either.

wundayatta's avatar

Ah, @Jude. I think I can save you from a life of lesbianism. I see what your mistake is.

No. I never worry about nude photos biting me. My weewee, like every other one, doesn’t have teeth!

So really! Don’t worry. It’s not going to hurt you!

Tra la la!

cookieman's avatar

Nope, because I’ve never posted or sent any nude pictures of myself because I’ve never photographed myself nude because I don’t have a wide-angle lens.

wundayatta's avatar

@cprevite What about your stalker?

syz's avatar

I would never send nude photos.

zensky's avatar

I’ll need some examples.

Facade's avatar

I’m not worried. I don’t include my face in the photos.

Leanne1986's avatar

The only person that has nude/sexy pictures of me is my current boyfriend. I don’t worry about it at all. I trust him with my life and, even if we did split up, I just can’t imagine him being malicious enough to make the pictures public. Of course, we never know how we will act during a break up so I can’t rule it out but I have enough trust in him right now to not be bothered about the “what ifs”.

zensky's avatar

Famous last words.

Leanne1986's avatar

@zensky I did think that as I posted!!!

Edit: I should mention that I have more than enough on my current boyfriend that, if he was to leak the photos, I could make his life equally as hell!!!!!

zensky's avatar

I hope I’m wrong.

Jude's avatar

All that I can say is that my face wasn’t shown, so I’m good.

slopolk's avatar

You should always use discretion when ever your having/letting someone take nude photos of you. Be it your boyfriend or a professional photographer. Speaking from experience my little brother (whom is a youth pastor) caught some guys looking at a magazine i was in and when they showed him my picture he was very angry. I can’t change my past and my past is a part of who I am today, but It made me feel bad that my little brother was hurt and didn’t understand why I would have posed for such. Moral of the story it could be years before your ever confronted about your past (photos) and you never know who the person seeing them maybe, so think twice before you let yourself be put out there like that.

Jude's avatar

What if they’re tastefully done?

janbb's avatar

@Jude I think the point is that if you’re the type who’s going to worry about it, don’t do it.

Jude's avatar

Right.

WillWorkForChocolate's avatar

I don’t send naked pics of myself. Usually.

MollyMcGuire's avatar

I’ve never done it and don’t understand what would make anyone.

FutureMemory's avatar

@WillWorkForChocolate Even your non-nakie pics are hawt though.

WillWorkForChocolate's avatar

D’awwwww. <blushing>

filmfann's avatar

Nude pictures? I am a taker, not a giver.

tedd's avatar

I’ve received photos of several x’s and the current G/F… I’ve erased them after splitting with each X and reaching a point where I was pretty sure we would not be getting back together.

The only scenario where I could envision myself putting them online or something would be if the X very painfully hurt me… say.. cheated on me, and was malicious about bringing that news to me “ie F*ck you i’m boning frank now, here’s a picture of us doing it!!!”

FutureMemory's avatar

@tedd Even under those circumstances I couldn’t do it. No matter how terribly she treated me, it’s still a private matter.

txtelevision's avatar

I stopped worrying a long time ago. We have had a laptop stolen, 2 external drives stolen, and lost sd cards, all with personal pics. Not much I can do about that now. At least the pics were hot.

ETpro's avatar

@txtelevision Welcome to Fluther. I;m very sorry to hear about your losses. It’s good, though, that you can take them with such equanimity.

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