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(maybe NSFW) Can you help me with my first kiss?

Asked by lonely_one_first (20 points ) April 16th, 2012

I’ve never been kissed before, nor have I ever kissed. I’ve talked to a friend, and he said he had a surprise for me at lunch, and for a fact I know it’s a kiss because we’re so close, we’re almost a couple. And when he said it, he said it in like a mysterious, sexy kind of way.

Can you walk me through some techniques on what to expect, and not expect?

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Uberwench's avatar

My advice is to not overthink it. Do what feels natural, and follow his lead if you’re nervous. Don’t start with your mouth open or he’ll wind up kissing your teeth.

ucme's avatar

If he attempts tonsil hockey from the get go, knee him in the nuts.

marinelife's avatar

Follow his moves. Press your lips against his about the same pressure he is using. He may push against your lips to get them to open. You can part them a little bit. I would not tangle tongues on the first kiss attempt.

DarlingRhadamanthus's avatar

I promise….even if you have never been kissed or kissed anyone…you will know exactly what to do. Your heart will know…and give your lips the right directions.. :)

And if you need inspiration…:

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mazingerz88's avatar

John Hughes surely can. : )

john65pennington's avatar

Undoubtedly before your first kiss or any kiss, you will lick your lips. Its just a built-in mechanism that theh Lord has provided us, since childbirth.

Next time you watch a couple about to kiss each other, observe their very first actions and you will noice they lick their lips.

You need to practice this in front of a mirror. It will hit you when you least expect it.

janbb's avatar

I never licked my lips before kissing; have I been doing it wrong all these years?

Sunny2's avatar

@janbb I was thinking the same thing. Really?
To me that’s a sloppy kiss. I prefer to start gently to warm up. Particularly when I first began kissing.

Jude's avatar

I have never licked my lips either. What the sam hill? lmao

AshLeigh's avatar

From my experience, everyone kisses differently. Just do what he does.
Stay calm. And don’t wear chap stick while kissing. Guys hate that.

likipie's avatar

In my opinion, the guy should lead the kiss, especially when it’s your first. Like was previously stated, just follow his moves. He leans to the left, you lean to the right. He goes for your upper lip, you go for his lower. Good luck! And I hope it’s magical (cliche alert!!!).

wilma's avatar

No licking, no lipstick, you may find yourself not breathing. That is kind of normal.

DarlingRhadamanthus's avatar

Soooooo….......what happened? Hope it all went well for you.

lonely_one_first's avatar

I went not at all what I expected. Fast peck. Then he walked away.

Thanks for your help anyway!

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