Which of these is most in evidence in your daily life?

I’m asking you to rank the following attributes according to which is most in evidence in your day-to-day life. That is, if there were a fly on the wall, which of these things would that fly see you do most.

I appreciate that you may have values that do not show up in this experiment. You may have an inviolable rule that just doesn’t come up that often and so gets demoted in your list.

Courtesy
Kindness
Winning
Avoiding
Controlling
Affection

Does your list make you happy about the way you are, the way you live?