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NSFW: Why do some people feel the need to tape or photograph their sexual activity?

Asked by jazmina88 (11652points) October 1st, 2012

My hot neighbor just came back from her honeymoon, was warned not to show me certain pics, but one popped up ( she was not so innocent in showing me). The girl has always liked attention. I do not like porn or that shit anyhow.
If you are having a good time, why waste a hand on a camera?
PS I dont think it looks hot. She may be beautiful, but whats so awesome about a…. in your mouth?

Couldnt some of this get in the wrong hands and harm your image?

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cookieman's avatar

Exhibitionism plain and simple.

At least your neighbor’s “hot”, most suburban swingers or nudists are decidedly… not.

filmfann's avatar

I hate it when friends show me videos of their children’s birth.
I can never look at it as God’s miracle. I see it as “that’s my friend’s wife’s snatch!”

DrBill's avatar

it is a fetish, some people get off knowing it is being filmed, and then get off again when they watch it.

Haleth's avatar

There’s nothing wrong with taking pictures for private use, or sharing them with people who want to see them. It’s really not okay that she showed you naked pics knowing you didn’t want to see them. She just included you in her sex life without your consent. You have every right to feel uncomfortable. If you really think she did it on purpose, you might want to either confront her- tell her very firmly that what she did was not ok- or just stop seeing her. To my mind, this is pretty much the same thing as a guy flashing you on the subway.

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jazmina88's avatar

@Haleth Thanks. I was kinda shocked. It was her husband that warnd her not to show me. I dont think she knows i’m disgusted by porn, even though I’ve sure I have told her.

ucme's avatar

It fills a hole in their lives, pun very much intended.

Paradox25's avatar

For the same reason why some people need to make out in public, it’s because they’re attention whores who probably get their rocks off more from the exhibitionism than the sex itself.

El_Cadejo's avatar

I like having some pics or vids for myself for when my SO isnt around. I’d prefer looking at that over normal net porn.

Shippy's avatar

Each to their own, but of course keep it private, or at least for those who want to see :P

tedd's avatar

Many people enjoy filming themselves with their partners, be it for private use between the two of them, or for showing to others through whatever media.

Honestly it’s a to each their own thing. I enjoy having stuff like that from my SO, and have had it from several of them through the years. But I would not be happy at all if it fell into someone else’s hands, and have taken great efforts to ensure it doesn’t.

wundayatta's avatar

I can’t explain this. My sense of privacy is such that, even if I ever took a picture of me having sex with my wife, I would never want to show it to anyone. Why should I? So people can think I’m an idiot? I may be an idiot, but that much of an idiot I am not!

poisonedantidote's avatar

It is just fun to do, and adds an extra dimension to your sex life. It can also be quite funny at times, specially when watching it together later on.

El_Cadejo's avatar

@poisonedantidote yea, I have some funny porn bloopers. I havent really been trained to hold onto a camera while fucking or you’ll sometimes pay a bit less attention to your surroundings cause your looking at the camera(plus having sex) and then woop rollin right off the bed lol

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