Could my ex boyfriend still have feelings for me?
We broke up nearly three months ago. I ended it because of compatibility issues. (He didn’t meet my needs as he wasn’t very attentive. He’d often go days without contacting me and this made me feel neglected). After two months of no contact, he got back in touch with me and asked if I wanted to meet for a coffee to catch up. So we did, and the attraction was still there in a big way. We ended up sleeping together.
The last time we communicated was Thursday when we sent a few texts to each other. I sent the last text but he didn’t reply. Now, exactly three days later, he has texted me saying ‘Hey you! Why so quiet!?’ This is ironic really considering I was the one having the problem of him not contacting enough when we were together.
I thought he should be the one to initiate the communication considering I was the one who sent the last text… And anyway… we’re not a couple anymore so why is he being so accusing? Could he still have feelings? I admit that I have feelings for him, and he knows I do. I’ve told him. But he also knows I’m unsure about getting back together because of our compatibility issues.
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