Would you do "this" if you were never found out?
OK, so this is in part a fantasy question. Reminds me of a book I read cannot recall the title where some friends found a suitcase filled with a million bucks. Should they take it? Should they not? But that is not the question.
If you had the chance to “have an affair” or a brief encounter with the most delicious person you know, or have met already, and not be found out, would you?
If you decide not to, why? It’s not like you will be found out.