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If you have trouble saying no, do you get angry when others say no to you?

Asked by JLeslie (65412points) December 7th, 2012

This is a piggy back to @Shippy’s recent Q which asked if you have trouble saying no.

What I wondered was if the people who say yes to everything, even things they dread doing, when someone says no to one of their requests do they get all bent out of shape?

Maybe it is a tit for tat mindset, if I am going to sacrifice myself you better too?

Or, another explanation could be a general sense of obligation to certain expectations put on us by family, community, and society? An expectation you put equally on yourself and others?

Do you judge those who easily say no? Are you envious?

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