How does one balance order and chaos?

Human psyches require both. Can they coexist? Does one have to conquer the other?

I can see how the traits might be benefical in different aspects of our life but why is there a constant war between the two?

Which side is your stronger side and how do you feel you benefit and or suffer for it?

Can tranquil thought and enlightment embrace the chaotic side or does the achievement of such call for the death or amputation of chaotic creativity? If it does how can it be called stagnation rather then enlightenment?