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Venting my feelings!
Ok this is gonna make me sound bad regardless of how I say it… But I just recently got divorced last year. To an army man.. And since I left him I haven’t heard from and of my friends, who were other wives.. Spouses etc. so I’ve become very uptight about who I become friends with but it has made me hate military wives in general cause of it! I truly thought they were my friends. But I’ve realized that j was just someone for them to gossip about while I was married to my ex. And it’s not just that! My first marriage wasn’t great at all. He n I got along in front of people but when it was just us we didn’t speak. We would go to parties and look like the perfect couple n then go home n that was it! He’d get trashed /drunk and come home n force me to have intercourse with him, even when I didn’t want to he’d hold me down and do it. So I started to hate him for it. NATURALLY right?? Then I found out he was cheating on me with his ex before me and I freaked out on him. But in turn came back at me for prying into his business. So when he deployed I TRYED to be good little wifey, kept the house clean bills paid and was still at his every beck n call.. Then about 5 months after he deployed I found out he took his r&r to see her all the while I was freaking out thinking something had happened to him. Then a month later he calls n tells me he got her pregnant!!!!!! So I left him! And all his buddies thought he was the shit! when he screwed me over. wasted three years of my life. AND now I resent military in general! But I do respect them for what they do and I give a high five for what they’ve done for our country but to me…... They’re all pieces of shit. I’ve never met a group of people so stuck on themselves!!! Am I wrong for having such resentment?