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Do you think an s/o who gives little daily kisses can banish anxiety or depression?

Asked by Aster (20023points) May 6th, 2013

If you had an s/o who gave you several little kisses throughout your day like a kiss on the cheek when you’re busy doing just anything or a kiss on the forehead with or without an , “I love you” during unexpected times could this have a strong effect on a woman’s anxiety or depression? If you never receive this type of affection do you think a person might be more apt to be anxious, irritable or depressed? Just how powerful are small, physical expressions of love on our emotional state? I apologize for the lousy sentence structure. It’s early .

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Seek's avatar

I get those from my son. He’s super-affectionate.

It’s about 50/50. Half the time I’m “Oh! You’re so wonderful!” The other half I’m more like “Get the f*k off my face for the last time.”

Cupcake's avatar

It depends on whether you receive love from physical affection. I do not. What you are describing would not have a positive effect on my depression/anxiety.

LuckyGuy's avatar

I think the message and comfort delivered by a touch is just as much under the control of the recipient as it is the giver. The result can range from repulsion to affection to the promise of a promise.
Someone whose touch is not appreciated or rejected forcefully is not likely to repeat the gesture – even when the recipient desires it.

All these communication issues will be solved when science finally perfects mind reading.

elbanditoroso's avatar

Only if he/she means it. If the kisses are done out of obligation or expectation, it become routine and loses its meaning.

jca's avatar

I think it depends on the level of anxiety or depression that we’re talking about. If someone is severely depressed or anxious, medication is probably the route to take, although kisses and kind words can’t hurt.

hearkat's avatar

Feeling unconditionally loved and accepted makes a tremendous difference, but kisses or other displays of affection don’t necessarily demonstrate unconditional love. My sweetie is very affectionate, and his caresses can sometimes annoy me because I’m easily distracted – but he understands that, so he’ll stop with a simple gesture. He does rub my back when we settle in for the night, though… that helps send me off to dreamland in a happy state of mind, and a good night’s sleep is very beneficial to well-being.

OpryLeigh's avatar

It always makes me feel better when I get unexpected little kisses from my boyfriend.

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