Do you really know what you want?
I often listen to people tell me what they want. Whether from mate to job/career family to lifestyle etc and it seems they actually don’t really want what they describe when they go on.
Everyone is different. Certain people may be more in tune with what they want from certain aspects of their life then others. But what about you. Do you really know what you want? Have you gotten it? Do you regret it or now wish from something else?