What is the method behind single people who claim they want a connection but end up pressuring for sex on the first date?
I have been on too many dates with people who say they want a relationship want a connection. Don’t want sex on a first date. Yet they all push for it. I started thinking this was a line.
But I have talked been friend’s with people who want relationships. But hang out in pick up bars or go home with whomever catches their eye.
Some of these people are smart too. Recently I was hanging out with a friend (male) who said he thought he was too passive. That it was his job to try. Later that same night he tried to manipulate me into having sex with him.
What is the reasoning behind this behavior? Is there logic to it, is there a way to screen this behavior and not have to deal with handing out rejection? If a person feels compelled to try why does he have to keep on trying, just take a not now sign as something of a promise? I just want to know someone have a feel for them, take time to explore a connection on a less then sexual level and build a little anticipation. It’s not like I want commitment.