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Relationship question?

Asked by Recon_Warrior (22 points ) December 8th, 2013

So I told my crush that I liked her, and last Thursday she told me that she liked me as well. But the thing that concerns me is that she has been dating a guy for 3 months at a different school. I don’t want her to stop liking him just because she likes me, it makes me feel like I’m a horrible person. Should i talk to her about it? I asked two of my girl friends and one said yes, the other said no. I might let her figure it out on her own, because I don’t want to pressure her or anything. And I’m not looking to date her or anything, we’re only in 7th grade.

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johnpowell's avatar

Or maybe she said she liked you to avoid conflict and he is at a different school so maybe she thinks the two worlds will never collide.

Recon_Warrior's avatar

im jealous of him it’s just im not sure what to do

johnpowell's avatar

Being the other guy is never a good thing. My advice is to drop it until they break up. It is the seventh grade, she will probably be single in a few months and then you can pursue some hugs and hand-holding.

RealEyesRealizeRealLies's avatar

Wow this sounds serious. What a twisted tangled like triangle you’re in.

That’s messed up man. You must be quite the Romeo!

KNOWITALL's avatar

Jealousy is a wasted emotion because she will do what she wants anyway. It’s never too early to learn that, trust.

poisonedantidote's avatar

A girl that will leave a guy to be with you is not worth having.

Katniss's avatar

^ Right!

If she leaves some other guy for you, then you can expect the same thing to happen to you in the future.
Leave the ho in training alone and find a nice girl. Better yet, concentrate on school and worry about girls when your older.

Not trying to be bitchy, just giving you the same advice I’d give my own child.

bea2345's avatar

Why are you jealous? you plan to marry her? neither of you is old enough for serious dating.

crushingandreaming's avatar

Let her figure it out. Coming from a girls point of view.

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