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Why is my friend so mean and copies me?
So I have been friends with her for about 3 years. She was alright for the first portion of our friendship, but the she started to become really mean/apathetic. It started out with her yelling at me for everything I said. I would literally walk up to her and say ” hey, how was your weekend?” and she’d snap at me.
tried to blow that off and then she started copying everything I would do. For most of my life I had always had a somewhat ” scene” style and always loved darker colors and my favorite bands were usually under the alternative rock genre. Well I got my haircut somewhat ” scene” style and she kept telling me how she wanted it to. She tried to tell me that her favorite color was black, when she loved pink all of her. Also, one of my favorite bands is My Chemical Romance and all of the sudden she started to tell me how much she loved them and how she listened to them all the time and
I was playing a couple songs by them and she told me they were horrible and she didn’t even know who they were by. Also, she recently started liking All Time Low who I’ve listened to for the longest time and she suddenly started loving them, but didn’t know the song I was playing one day and called it shitty. Also, she didn’t even know who the lead singer was.
Another thing is that she had a crush on my boyfriend while we were going out and told me that ” she always liked him first and I stole him.” After we broke up they talked all the time and one day she just kept ranting on about there conversations so I quietly told her to not mention him around me and she freaked out at me and didn’t talk to me all day.
Also, I dyed my hair one day and she was over. I have really short curly hair and she told me how ugly I looked and that I looked like a man. She always tells me to stop embarrassing her when we’re at school in the morning and she makes fun of me and talks about me all the time. One time she actually hit me because I wouldn’t stop singing when she was over my house.
One time I actually got so sick of everything I told her it’d be best if we didn’t associate and she told me I brought her down anyway and that she talked to about me all the time. She didn’t even want to fix things and I asked her for an example and she couldn’t even give one. The thing is I have no on else and I don’t want to be alone.
I have to beg her to do things with me because half the time she just tells me she doesn’t want to. I’m socially awkward/depressed/ and have major anxiety and I have trouble making friends. I have no idea what to do, but I’m tired of her treating me this way. I haven’t even mentioned half of it.