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5 year relationship?
I have been in a relationship for 5 years. in the beginning I had a problem with his ex. she ended up telling me just wait till you get him mad. this thought has always been on my mind. I started to see when he got mad he would get increasingly aggressive towards me verbally. I am the type of person who
used to be aggressive back but now I have changed. I just listen to the words and try to calm the situation down by comforting him. I don’t like to agrie since it always escalates. It got to the point where he has put his hands on me. after he does this he tells me it’s all my fault and naked me feel horrible and I end up appologizing. I know it’s not the right thing to so but I’m scared of loosing him. I know I am subjecting myself to this but I really do love him and he is a great guy outside of our arguments. the worst part is that he now is an officer and I’m afraid to call the police on him because I don’t want him to loose his job. I always find myself feeling guilty about every fight. I just don’t know what to do anymore.