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Was it good for you? (NSFW)

Asked by GloPro (4571 points ) 1 month ago from iPhone

Do you remember losing your virginity?

Personally, thank goodness I only had to lose it once. Worst. Experience. Ever. I guess I’d never put my ankles behind my head before… Awkward! Sheesh, teenagers try the dumbest positions.

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livelaughlove21's avatar

Ankles behind your head? Why the hell was he trying to do?

I lost my virginity to my husband (well before marriage, of course), who was not a virgin. It wasn’t mind-blowingly awesome, but it wasn’t bad either. It wasn’t very painful, no bleeding, and my ankles stayed somewhere around his waist the whole time. Pretty decent experience.

Adirondackwannabe's avatar

I can still put my ankles behind my head but why would you want to get laid like that? I lost my virginity after a Super Bowl in my own bed. You can say I scored.

Coloma's avatar

My first experience was a date rape scenario minus any violence. This was back in 1975 when I was not quite 16 yet. A 24 yr. old guy slipped me a Mickey I believe, in some champagne at a friends brothers wedding reception and next thing I knew we were in an intimate situation. I got over it, but once I was older I realized the true reality of what had happened. Not memorable, more like ” Oh, I guess I am having sex” but was too out of it to do much other than go through with the it.

Adirondackwannabe's avatar

@Coloma That sucks. I’m sorry guys have treated you so poorly.

ucme's avatar

Yes, happened only yesterday, think I did it right.

Seek's avatar

It was my wedding night.

It had been an awful, way too stressful day. We left the wedding, went home, got changed, drove down to pick up the rental car, did a couple of other last-minute things before leaving the country for two weeks… Didn’t exactly make for a relaxed, romantic atmosphere. I remember it hurt a lot, but not much else.

Sex became way better after I gave up religion and realised I was allowed to enjoy myself.

GloPro's avatar

My ankles haven’t been there since. Stupid porno movies giving teenage boys lousy advice, I suppose.
I immediately felt guilty and told the guy I didn’t want to do that again. He said to me, “Girls like you don’t change.”
I didn’t do it again for 4 years.

ccrow's avatar

It was with DH, but before we were married. No fireworks, sadly, but no pain either.

@GloPro Proper reply: “Guys like you aren’t worth changing for!”;-)

Coloma's avatar

@Adirondackwannabe Only a couple, I am far to wise and choosey these days to allow anything unsavory to unfold. haha

gailcalled's avatar

I was 20; he was 22. We had official intercourse (which was only mezza-mezza) on our wedding night, but had done everything else with great exuberance for a long time before that.

antimatter's avatar

I am still trying to forget my first time, still haunts me to this day!

Cruiser's avatar

It was a hell of a lot of fun that much I remember! It helped that she knew what she was doing…I sure as hell didn’t! lol

syz's avatar

No, it sucked (figuratively).

El_Cadejo's avatar

Pretty craptastical. I’ve always had issues with condoms(they’re too tight and constricting, pain in your dick is a quick way to get turned off) so the first couple times were pretty rough until I got used to them.

@GloPro I don’t know that I’d say completely behind the head, but I’m quite a fan of that position.

livelaughlove21's avatar

@uberbatman I wonder if she shares the same sentiment.

Seek's avatar

It’s pretty awesome until you get stabbed in the cervix. Just go easy.

livelaughlove21's avatar

@Seek_Kolinahr Cervix stabbing, eh? Yeahhhh, I’ll pass. I personally prefer when sex doesn’t feel like a genealogical exam.

Seek's avatar

Hey, don’t knock it ‘till you try it. It’s great g-spot access

El_Cadejo's avatar

@livelaughlove21 Oh….she does :P

Jonesn4burgers's avatar

I was crazy nervous. He knew that. He was very careful, very gentle, and great music was playing on the radio. He knew I was shy about being seen, so he blocked all light in the room, even put his shorts over the lights on the stereo. Ha ha. After he cuddled me until I slept.

AshLeigh's avatar

I was almost 17. Mostly, it was awkward. It hurt, and he was actually kind of a cock about it. I remember just waiting for it to be over.
For some reason I stayed with him for another year after that.
Oh, and the legs over your head thing is actually quite nice when you’re a former gymnast.

Cruiser's avatar

@AshLeigh My wife also likes wearing her knees for earrings….she is a Yoga instructor…must be a flexibility thing!

Jonesn4burgers's avatar

I prefer my knees behind someone else’s ears.

Leanne1986's avatar

I lost my virginity to someone I still love very much so that makes the memory of it much easier to stomach. It wasn’t an amazing experience or even comfortable but I don’t regret it. I am glad that sex has got much better for me through the years!! I was 19 when I lost my virginity.

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