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My husband doesn't like talking much after work. It makes me feel so lonely. What should I do?

Asked by chinchin31 (1874points) March 19th, 2014

What is the point in being married if you don’t have time to talk to each other during the week. I don’t want to be a nag. But I find it really weird. The thing is we don’t even have children. So it makes me wonder what would our life be like if we do have children. I just find it so lonely.

He has a very demanding job and well he goes to the gym after work. He also is an introvert but so am I but I still like to talk at home at the end of the day.

I just find it a strange way to be. I think alot of people live like this. But I don’t like it. What should I do? I just don’t understand what is the point in being married if you are supposed to have a life that is completely seperate from your husband except for a couple hours on the weekend.

I do have a couple friends that I meet every now and again but still I just find it weird. I think it would be better to just not get married and date forever. Is this really the way life is supposed to be. What is the point then?

He tells me that he just needs alone time after work and he can’t help that he is an introvert but I still think it is weird. What should I do?

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