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Girls would you ever have a FFM threesome? (NSFW)

Asked by Mat3 (10 points ) April 3rd, 2014

How open would you be to fulfill this great male fantasy? Here are some questions?

Would you ever do it?

Would you like the girl to be a friend or a stranger?

Would you let the other girl interact with you?

Would you do it with a boyfriend?

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livelaughlove21's avatar

No.

My husband had a FFM threesome before we met and he said he’d never do it again because it was actually really uncomfortable. And if it’s not his fantasy, there’s no reason I’d do it. I’m not attracted to women and I can’t imagine diving into a muff for anyone, even my partner.

Stal_girl's avatar

Would you ever do it?

Under the right circumstances yes

Would you like the girl to be a friend or a stranger?

A stranger or a very particular friend

Would you let the other girl interact with you?

I am up for making out, don’t really know about anything else. I am scared of vayjays but it would depend on the momentWould you do it with a boyfriend?

No, I don’t think so

Adirondackwannabe's avatar

Why do you think this is a great male fantasy? I’m concerned about satisfying one woman, I think satisfying two would take some major work. Yeah it’s interesting to think about, but not favoring one woman over the other, sharing myself with two other people? I don’t know how it would work.

ragingloli's avatar

Only if one of the girls wears a strap on and the guy receives some rough pegging.

GloPro's avatar

^^^ eek!

livelaughlove21's avatar

@ragingloli Now that I could get into.

ragingloli's avatar

Or better yet, both us girls wear strap-ons and we pummel the guy from both sides.

Adirondackwannabe's avatar

Ouch, I’m not even going to ask what the two sides are.

livelaughlove21's avatar

@Adirondackwannabe Mouth and anus, of course. Oh, you said you weren’t going to ask. Oops. :)

Adirondackwannabe's avatar

Okay, that’s what I thought but I was scared there might be something else.

cookieman's avatar

This might be a “great male fantasy” in watching porn, but in real life, I can just about handle my wife. Two women?! No thanks.

Jonesn4burgers's avatar

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Mimishu1995's avatar

@Jonesn4burgers You should go on a demonstration ~

flip86's avatar

I’ve been in a 2 girls, 2 guys situation before and it is not something I’d like to repeat. It was awkward as hell. There was no guy on guy. We switched between girls.

Seek's avatar

Sure, I’d try it.

Probably not with a stranger, I have a hard time feeling attracted to people I don’t know. Everyone’s just sort of generic human-shape until I’ve known them a while – does that make sense?

There would be little point in doing it at all unless all three parties were involved with each other.

Yes, I would do it with a significant other (I’m married and do not have a boyfriend).

GloPro's avatar

@Seek You changed your name! yes, I am a master of the obvious.

Smitha's avatar

I wouldn’t.I don’t believe in sharing my partner. In most case if you have a three some (FFM) the woman may begin to doubt the loyalty of her partner and may not feel confident when compared to the other woman. In the FMF threesome,there will always be one woman who feels left out or would be jealous, and it’s awkward afterward when that happens.

Seek's avatar

I did! Less google-able and easier to spell. ^_^

GloPro's avatar

seriously. I always had to scroll up and repeat the spelling to myself when addressing you. I just googled my moniker, and it seems I’m way way down on a list full of fishing lures and safety clothes. Never thought to do that. Good point.

anniereborn's avatar

yes
friend, but not someone I am TOO close to
yes
yes

cazzie's avatar

Nope nope and nope. I’m too old, boring and can’t fool myself to think I’d be attractive enough to rate any of it.

El_Cadejo's avatar

@Smitha ” In the FMF threesome,there will always be one woman who feels left out or would be jealous, and it’s awkward afterward when that happens.”

Not true at all.

SecondHandStoke's avatar

^^“Can’t rollerskate in a buffalo herd…”

Also, this just in:

“Male fantasy”, smell the chauvinism.

That said, Threesomes just are what they are.

I had a longtime female friend with benefits. We made a habit of ganging up on friends of friends or people we met a parties of clubs. Good times I would say.

Later I had a long and serious relationship with a talented dominant woman. I was her younger treasured possession.

We would attend kink clubs and events in Atlanta. We would usually find ourselves in the women’s room with me sitting on the counter. Club goers would be required to ask her permission before they were allowed to pet me. She would look on with pride as I got my “strokes.” Nothing since has felt nearly so satisfying as the resulting sensation.

If we liked a third party and we were confident they were mature and understood the rules they could come home to play. Usually the guest would take direction from my loving and wise Mistress.

Uberwench's avatar

Don’t go thinking this is just some “great male fantasy.” Sometimes it’s a female fantasy, too. I’ve had both FFM and MMF threesomes and enjoyed them all. And they’re not really awkward if you know what you’re doing. But a lot of people think it only counts as sex if all parties are receiving genital stimulation at all times, which just isn’t true.

So yes, I would do it. I’ve done it many times. And I don’t really care if the other girl is a friend or a stranger, though there are certain friends that I wouldn’t want in my bed whether alone or with someone else. Basically, it’s just a matter of whether the person fits my normal standards. Being a friend is neither a plus nor a minus. Yes, I would let the other girl interact with me. In fact, that would be my ideal. I am attracted to both men and women, so I’m happy to interact with both in a threesome. Finally, I would do it with a boyfriend (and have), I would do it with a girlfriend (and have), and I would be the “extra” partner (and have). I’ve also wound up in threesomes where none of the people involved were dating.

@ragingloli I’ve done both of your pegging scenarios. Fun!

@Seek It can still be fun even if all three parties aren’t involved. I had a series of threesomes with a couple once, and the first one was me and the boyfriend attending to the girlfriend. I’m pretty sure it was a test. If he could make it through her fantasy (a guy and a girl both attending to her at once), she would consider his fantasy (two girls attending to him) and then their shared fantasy (all-out three-way sex). And they were reciprocal about it. At least one time was the two of them focusing mostly on me.

@Smitha I’ve played a lot of different roles in threesomes, and I’ve never felt left out. Part of it’s attitude. Just because no one’s directly stimulating me doesn’t mean I’m not participating in the sex. But part of it’s planning. There are plenty of arrangements that keep everyone involved.

gailcalled's avatar

Anything that requires a choreographer and energy drinks loses its charm quickly.

Nope, nope and nope…completely unrelated to my age, ability to fascinate, or my present state of gorgeousness or lack of it.

OpryLeigh's avatar

Never say ever. I find the idea of a threesome quite appealing and certainly like the idea of my boyfriend watching me with another girl. My biggest issue would be watching him with another girl, I don’t think I’d like that which is why we probably won’t do it.

Smitha's avatar

@El_Cadejo and @Uberwench
I’ve never done threesome, so I don’t know how it will be. I just mentioned my view. What I feel is threesomes may be fine as long as the man knows how to please both women at the same time. But the thing is the husband wife and other women, in such a situation naturally the husband might show more interest in pleasing the other woman and it’s the other women that gets all the sex. In such a situation the wife can feel left out.

El_Cadejo's avatar

“in such a situation naturally the husband might show more interest in pleasing the other woman and it’s the other women that gets all the sex. In such a situation the wife can feel left out.”

Naturally? From a guy POV, there are two women there, one I love and one I’m just having sex with, I think it’s pretty clear that the one I love is getting a lot more of my attention.

chinchin31's avatar

I would never do this. What is wrong with you. Any man that asks you to do something like this has no respect for you. If i was you i would run. You don’t just do things because a guy wants you to do them. You are disrespecting yourself. Sex is something that is precious. Not to be shared with multiple people at the same time. Stay away from that kind of life. Trust me if you engage in this you will regret it later. You will feel used and worthless. Because you see something in porn that doesn’t mean you have to do it okay. Please think about this before you do this please. Any man that truly loves you will never ask you to engage in such a thing.

ragingloli's avatar

@chinchin31
That is YOUR opinion.
Some in this thread have done it and they do not feel “worthless and used”.
You might, because of the religious guilt that you carry around with you.
Do us all a favour and do not become a politician.

anniereborn's avatar

@chinchin31 who says it has to be the man’s idea?

Mimishu1995's avatar

Yeah @chinchin31! Be a little open-minded and don’t blame the OP please!

Seek's avatar

@chinchin31

“Sex is something that is precious.”

I think of it more like… hugs, or love, or compliments. No matter how much you do it, there’s still more where that came from!

It’s not like we’re given a bag of orgasms at the beginning of our lives, and we have to make sure to be careful how we use them or they’ll run out.

cazzie's avatar

hahahaha! @Seek Thank goodness for that!

Kardamom's avatar

Not unless the two women looked exactly like Martin Clunes and Alan Rickman.

OpryLeigh's avatar

@Kardamom Did you ever watch William and Mary with Martin Clunes and Julie Graham? My two favourite crushes on the same screen (Julie Graham also popped up in Doc Martin and they worked together in Dirty Tricks as well). There’s a threesome fantasy right there for me!!!!

Kardamom's avatar

@Leanne1986 I have seen bits and pieces of William and Mary and I saw a wonderfully naughty scene from Dirty Tricks. I can’t seem to find the whole lot of them on Youtube and they don’t have them on Netflix either. I’d love to see both of those shows from the beginning all the way through.

It must have been hard for Julie Graham to be on Doc Martin and not get to kiss him!

OpryLeigh's avatar

@Kardamom William and Mary is probably one of my favourite TV programmes. It’s so heart warming and Martin is lovely in it, I think it was the first time I paid attention to him as, until then I had only seen him in Men Behaving Badly and he didn’t do much for me in that.

Kardamom's avatar

@Leanne1986 Yes, I’ve seen a few episodes of Men Behaving Badly, and although Martin is very cute, he seems so not Martin-like. Kind of “typical” of your average TV man, rather than with William and Mary and Doc Martin where he is quite different (in good ways and bad ways) where he is quite unique.

I just love him so much.

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