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(NSFW) Men, how long does it take you to ejaculate without sexual intercourse?

Asked by marksonos (298 points ) April 5th, 2014

Without a full length blow/handjob (maybe brief ones here and there that last 10 seconds) or intercourse, how long would it take you to ejaculate if you are making out with a girl in bed? Or would you?

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livelaughlove21's avatar

So…without being touched at all? Dry humping?

Be more specific. I’m sure the answer is, “it depends on the person you’re with and the activity.”

marksonos's avatar

@livelaughlove21 dry jumping and being touched very short and few times. I know, I’m asking you guys!

livelaughlove21's avatar

My husband says he’d have to be incredibly turned on (probably more turned on than he’s ever been) to ejaculate from brief moments of friction. I’d imagine teenage boys wouldn’t need much stimulation at all.

Imadethisupwithnoforethought's avatar

Never as an adult. Has to be some kind of stimulation.

In highly sexualized situations in public that last for awhile, you start to leak pre-cum. But never ejaculation. The older you get, the more physical stimulation required for ejaculation. Also, if you have ejaculated recently the next one takes a long time to build up.

jtvoar16's avatar

If I have been “pent up” and not ejaculated in a few days, It usually only takes about 2 minutes of dry humping, or “legging” as I was taught what it is (just hugging each other, basically). But if I have been steady in my sex, it would take about 10 minutes. Though, I suspect if I found that right someone, I could finish like that, from just being touched, every day in a few minutes. Though I am in my 30’s, I’m a very sexual, and over-sexed person.

Adirondackwannabe's avatar

Unless you’re really working my dick I’m not going to cum.

DominicX's avatar

That is not something that can be counted on all the time. I think around the times I first made out with someone, I was able to ejaculate that way pretty quickly. But other times I’ve been very horny and dry humping a bit and nothing. So that’s an unreliable way to “finish” for me, at least.

SavoirFaire's avatar

I would not. No amount of making out or dry humping has ever been enough on its own to get me all the way to orgasm. Not when I was 15, and certainly not now.

zenvelo's avatar

Hasn’t happened that way for me in forty years.

Thammuz's avatar

Never happened to me, at all. It usually takes a lot more than just making out for me. It’s actually kind of annoying.

Eggie's avatar

Never happened to me from just making out. I would get a really hard boner though, but i would not ejaculate unless direct stimulation of the penis.

Blondesjon's avatar

29¾ minutes.

gailcalled's avatar

^^For the win. Amazing that you could also hold a stopwatch, although by now, nothing you do should surprise me.

SavoirFaire's avatar

@Blondesjon @gailcalled Great, and now you have me thinking about how long it would take Sting to meditate himself to orgasm. Thanks.

He said in an obvious attempt to cover up the fact that the mental leap was entirely his own.

gailcalled's avatar

@SavoirFaire. I have to keep on finding ways of making you think, you non-thinker, you. It’s exhausting.

rojo's avatar

Man, at this point in my life, If you ain’t likkin’, I ain’t stickin’

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