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What is the best part of sex? (NSFW)

Asked by GloPro (8248 points ) May 23rd, 2014 from iPhone

What is the ONE best part of the physical act of sex? Include oral, anal, and vaginal in the definition of sex.

Feel free to rank if you can’t pick just one, but try to pick just one moment in the act that is the BEST!

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ucme's avatar

The spunk pumping bit

Dan_Lyons's avatar

The cigarette when it’s over.

AshLeigh's avatar

Clawing at the curvature of his spine.

LuckyGuy's avatar

#1 The intimacy.
#2 The contractions.

I’ve been thinking about this and, Yep, I’m sticking with that order.
#1 without #2 is better than #2 without #1.

bolwerk's avatar

Flushing

GloPro's avatar

For me it’s the moment your anticipation is realized at first penetration.

zenvelo's avatar

I concur with @LuckyGuy.

i remember one conversation when I was a freshman in college and one of the older guys said,“when she lifts her hips so you can slide off her panties, you know you’re getting laid, and if it wasn’t for pleasing her, you might as well come then.”

Unbroken's avatar

The part that is happening tied with what is going to happen next.

Blondesjon's avatar

The sex part.

filmfann's avatar

First entry.

I checked three times that I typed the r in “first”

elbanditoroso's avatar

Different for each person – it depends on what she brings to the equation. For some. it’s afterwards when we cuddle. For others, it’s moment of orgasm. For some, it’s when I get in the car to go home.

ARE_you_kidding_me's avatar

Actually getting it.

Mimishu1995's avatar

Orgasm.

Answer from someone who hasn’t had real sex.

LornaLove's avatar

Sharing kinky thoughts, that’s so hot.

Coloma's avatar

I’m with @Dan_Lyons and, being a female, ooh baby, the BEST is that nice curved penis that hits the G spot for a flood of fantastic feeling, right up there with amazing oral.

Earthbound_Misfit's avatar

I’d have to say the release when I reach orgasm. I always imagine it as a bit like reaching the top of a roller coaster and then the tension releases as the feelings flow through my body.

Dan_Lyons's avatar

Once back in 74 I found my girlfriend’s G spot @Coloma. I have never forgotten her thrill at that nor have I ever forgotten where it is!

Haleth's avatar

People say “intimacy” so much that the word becomes a cliche and loses its meaning. But that really is the best thing. When you’re with someone and really care about each other, sex amplifies your feelings of connectedness and your mental/emotional connection amplifies the pleasure. It becomes this wonderful feedback loop.

So for instance, kissing their shoulder during sex isn’t just that action. It’s kissing the shoulder of your favorite person on earth at that moment. That might feel nice physically, but the affection behind it matters just as much, and you feel both at once. And that prompts them to do something else to you, etc etc etc, until you’re in your own little bubble of sensation and affection.

That truly is a best-case scenario, and it’s rare. It takes kind of a leap of faith to feel that way about someone. If you’re wrong about them, what a disappointment. Or it could be a flash in the pan.

Without the intimacy, it’s kind of like, “oh, hey, cool. I’m getting laid. I wonder what’s on TV right now?” Like, my enthusiasm is maybe a 6 on a scale of 1–10.

Jonesn4burgers's avatar

My very favorite part is the AGAIN.

Jonesn4burgers's avatar

Wait, @Unbroken, tieing what to what?!? ;-P

JeSuisRickSpringfield's avatar

For me, it is the moment when she passes the point of no return. Fingers clenching, eyes widening, back arching, hips bucking. A flurry of convulsions and contractions. The most beautiful loss of control.

Unbroken's avatar

@Jonesn4burgers I meant what is happening in the moment, as well as the anticipation of what is coming next… It’s not all about the destination. Though it helps when the destination is fantastic.

But I suppose I should amend that statement. Sometimes when we’re lucky the chemistry makes my opinion true. But its not always there. And really if we are talking specific partners I can’t generalize what part I typically enjoy the most.

Jonesn4burgers's avatar

@Unbroken, I knew, but I just had to mess with you. Suggesting tieing stuff on a question like this was begging for a ribbing.

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