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Can you ever tell if a guy is lying (NSFW) ?

Asked by emanuelegomes (296 points ) 2 months ago

I want to know if I’m good at the sexual stuff that goes down in my relationship but my boyfriend isn’t a big talker, he only comments on it when I do so. Does that mean I’m bad at what I do? Can he be lying when he says I’m the best? Any tips on what to do?

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Seek's avatar

He’s enjoying it if you’re enjoying it. Dollars to donuts.

Relax and have fun. As long as nothing ends up broken you’re fine.

El_Cadejo's avatar

Did he cum? If the answer is yes, he enjoyed it.

Guys are simple :P

Mariah's avatar

Guys seem to have this conception of masculinity where they think they “have” to be quiet to be manly. You’re probably doing just fine. Let him know you’d appreciate more noise.

Dan_Lyons's avatar

Usually you can tell because their lips are moving. However I see here you’re talking about lying by omission.
In this case all the above responses are correct.

johnpowell's avatar

I’m a dude and we are pretty easy to please. If anything this needs to go the other direction. You should be telling him what you like. He will cum even if you act like a bag of rocks. At least for me sex is about being good enough that I will have a chance to do it with the same woman again.

Crazydawg's avatar

Do it really bad with him on purpose and see what he says. You will have your answer.

livelaughlove21's avatar

If his dick gets hard and he has an orgasm, you’re doing fine. Men are simple; there’s no rocket science involved in pleasing them. Just remember to cover your teeth.

stanleybmanly's avatar

“Can he be lying when he says I’m the best? Any tips on what to do?” One big tip is to take a look at that question and realize how meaningless it is. Of course, he CAN be lying, but what does it matter? What you should care about is the fact he cares enough to reassure you and ease your insecurity. I know this is easy for all of us here to say, but you’re tormenting yourself over nothing.

Blackberry's avatar

Yeah don’t worry, you’re good to go. This is standard male behavior and it’s just what some of us do.

I’m also a quiet guy in bed because I feel making sounds and saying stuff is cheesy and embarrassing, regardless if I actually have to feel that way or not.

Hypocrisy_Central's avatar

If he keeps coming back for more, then don’t tinker with the watch, just enjoy keeping time.

Adirondackwannabe's avatar

Watch his face and his eyes when you are doing things to pleasure him. If he stays in control no, if he loses it yes.

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