What type of angry person are you, a “spewer”, a "stuffer", or a "leaker"?
I watched a video on relationships and the speakers said when it comes to anger people fall in three categories:
• ”Spewers; they get loud and abrasive the moment they are upset and don’t care about looking like a fool throwing a tantrum and screaming insults at someone.
• ”Stuffers”; they will sit on it, won’t say anything to the point no one knows they are upset. They will stuff things, and let it fester and stew until they snap and spew it out loud and hurtful word wise.
• ”Leakers”; they don’t scream and shout, but they don’t let it fester. The drop lugs and barbs in a passive-aggressive manner. If you do not let them use your extra vehicle for example, they will say something like ”Well, guess in order to get to my appointment I have to lose 40 minutes on the bus with all the crazies when I could be there in 10 minutes if you were not so tight with a car you don’t drive anyhow”, etc.
What type of angry person are you, a “Spewer”, “leaker”, or “stuffer”?