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If someone has some annoying behavior that you wish would change, have you found that doing something just as annoying to them in response can change the behavior?

Asked by Dutchess_III (46807points) October 25th, 2015

When my daughter was 16, 17 and I would question something she was doing, she’s respond with “Mutheerrrr. I know what I’m doo-ing!”
The teenage arrogance used to make me mad…until I began responding with “No. You don’t.”
After the 4th time she didn’t say it again.

Have you ever tried this kind of behavior modification?

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SQUEEKY2's avatar

I’m not a parent so have no idea in that form.
Have tried to give idiot coworkers back what they gave out, and most times they all of a sudden become a poor little picked on victim that goes crying to the boss.

Dutchess_III's avatar

It works on adults too.

Pachy's avatar

I doubt it. Experience is a better teacher than a controlling parent or boss.

P.S. Just because your daughter stopped saying “I know what I’m doing” doesn’t mean she stopped believing it.

stanleybmanly's avatar

With teenagers I usually just grin at the thought of the tortures awaiting them from their own future kids.

elbanditoroso's avatar

No, and in my experience it’s not going to work. Frankly, it’s petty. Winning an argument with your kids? Childs’ play, literally.

Darth_Algar's avatar

I find that with kids a good punch to the throat usually shuts them up.

Dutchess_III's avatar

Well, @Pachy, she stopped saying it. That’s all I wanted.

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