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Why do guys treat me so weird?

Asked by airecka99 (27points) November 13th, 2015

Whenever I meet guys (in random places) it’s always strange. One time I met this guy, I was extremely tired that day, so I was yawning a lot. And every time I yawned, he laughed-Was he making fun of me?
Another time -i kinda spent the day helping out at this place, so a bunch of people were stuck together (me included) – and a guy there came over to me when I was busying doing something and just tucked my hair behind my ear. It would have been cute if I knew him… honestly it was really weird.

A while ago I knew this guy and he was my friend-ish (I was never sure) like we would get along but we would also not get along…
I don’t really know..everything is strange in general.

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Cruiser's avatar

As a guy (older been there done that) trust me in that it is just as weird for the guy in those situations and they are struggling as much if not more than you to find that “cute” moment where a connection can be made that is less than awkward for both of you.

ZEPHYRA's avatar

It too shall pass.

Banjo_Pickin_Appalachian_Wizar's avatar

Just out of curiosity, may I ask your age?
Also, someone brushing your hair away without your consent is not really appropriate.

ibstubro's avatar

Puberty.
It’s a really weird, really strange, kind of weirdly strange phase of a strangely weird life.
Sort of.

OriginalCunningFox's avatar

At a young age nearly every interaction with the opposite sex is going to be awkward or weird. Just laugh about it, it’ll get better eventually.

ARE_you_kidding_me's avatar

young guys are awkward and are still expected to be the ones to make the first move. Guys acting a little odd around you is a sure bet that they like you. Unless they are just like that normally. I’m guessing you are young and just beginning to get that kind of attention. Get used to it, be nice and respectful but please don’t be tempted to string them along if you are not interested in them. I.E. “friendzoning them” The ones that won’t take no for an answer you need to stay away from. Be aware that even the most subtle gestures can be taken as an informal invitation so learn to be mindful of how you present yourself. Don’t put up with anything inappropriate either. Confused yet? So was every teenager I ever met.

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