If an old crush that didn't like you back at first suddenly showed interest, would you trust them?

I had a similar dream. I would trust in it.

If you aren’t interested in him, ignore it. Yes, people can change, but if he was a jerk and ignored you a few years back, what has changed? Are you prettier now (in his eyes), or does it look like you have a lucrative career ahead of you?

Is this the guy you asked about the other day? The one who sent you the song? If you don’t fancy him, you don’t need to worry about his motivation. You said you’re not interested. There is no way to know if he’s sincere. He’s not the same person he was back then in school. You fancied him back then. You don’t now. Are you wrong? Are you insincere? Perhaps he has grown up and sees you, or who he thinks you are, differently now. He’s no doubt changed as well.

No one steps in the same river twice.

People can improve with age and learn from their mistakes.

Never say never.

Red flags all over the place! I would proceed with EXTREME caution and mistrust!

FB has made such situations so much easier. Look up an old yearbook, find former classmates and contact them no matter how much time has passed. Many are just trying to increase the number of friends they can list, others might really want to know what has happened to you in the intervening years; although to me I would only be interested in knowing about those I cared about in the earlier years. If there were no attachments, emotional or physical back then, why would I expect there to be now. But, who knows, maybe you will get lucky.

Caution is warranted in such situations.

I’d say something like this…

“There ain’t no reverse gear on this here love train sugar, y’all missed your chance”

Perhaps he wants closure in this relationship?