How do i get rid of an ex that claims she does not want my man but wont leave us alone?

Well, what have you tried so far?

In situations like this the only solution might be to give up the man unless he is willing to tell her to take a hike.

Legal action. Have you man tell her to leave. If she doesn’t listen after him saying that, she’s legally trespassing.

You’re welcome to press charges at that point. That’ll keep most people away. If she’s made any threats, file for a restraining order.

Trying to get rid of her will sometimes only make him more loyal to her. What has she been doing – sleeping with him, or just being a friend? If it’s crossed the line, it might mean he’s more interested in her than he lets on. If she’s just a friend, well, maybe they’re friends and that’s ok. If she’s annoying and harrassive and your man thinks so too, let him be the one who tells her to go away. If she’s badly behaved, he’ll sicken of her eventually – and you’ll look like the patient one, not the intolerable girlfriend.

Set her up with one of your guy friends.

Without really knowing what she is doing, it’s hard to suggest anything. Is she calling? Ignore the calls. Is she showing up? Don’t invite her in.

If you ex doesn’t have a problem with her being around, you might not be able to get “rid” of her.

Again, though, it’s hard to know what is going on or how to suggest anything without more information.

Is she your ex or his?

Are they friends? I’ve had a few exes where the break up happened because we made much better friends.

Is he the one who wants her gone or are you?

Jack… I’m waiting…

@Malakai; Don’t hold your breath. Your wait will be very long.

Heh

YOU want to get rid of an ex that won’t leave US alone.

Is this a YOU problem or an US problem?