So did they..?

Nope. But believe me, he is sorry, and will be for the rest of his days.

No. And never will. I will get past it before that ever happens.

No, and the worst part is he doesn’t even know he did it.

Yes, but it really didn’t help the situation as she still never understood why she needed to apologize.

@scamp i wanna ask what happened but if he’s gunna be sorry for the rest of his days i dont wanna….you must’a got him back GOOD !!

No apology needed, time healed the deep deep wound. And, I think I had it coming, so Im not bitter.

No. But I’ve moved on.

No. But it was just as well;
there wasn’t much they could have said.

No, and I don’t expect one. Unfortunately, the people who need to apologize to me are not mentally healthy enough to understand or acknowledge what happened.

No, and it isn’t ever going to happen either. The person that should be apologizing to me has a sociopathic personality and I haven’t heard from her in 13 years and I hope it stays that way. It’s for the better.

Many, many times. I don’t think I’ve let go though.

I had a fortune cookie once that said, “Time heals all wounds, and wounds all heels.” I hope that’s true. This has been a very difficult week, personally.

@alfreda: hoping next week is better for you. Blessings.

Thank you all. I’m afraid it will have its ups and downs until the dust settles.

don’t piss off scamp

No.

No, he hurt me and others. He eventually committed suicide, though. He had a profound impact on my life. Sometimes, I still have nightmares, but I continue on.

There is no apology for what he did.

I honestly can’t say who and what hurt me most. But, of the few that spring to mind, no. It wouldn’t make a difference anyway.

Yes, but he didn’t mean it because he didn’t get it. It was more of an offhand, unfelt “sorry” with not quite rolled eyes that made the whole thing even worse. It called into question my entire ability to assess people I thought were close to me. It was sort of a “wow, if I was so very wrong about him then what else have I missed?” It made me overly guarded with people for a while.

Yes, and it made all the difference.

Yes, but it didn’t make a difference.

Yes. It helped me have some closure.

hmmm. sort of…. i mean he didnt apologize that time.. but many days later.. newaz.. he did!!!! :)