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How do you decide to make a comment public?

Asked by daloonagain (628points) March 22nd, 2009

I write a lot of personal stuff to people, and live in fear of accidently checking that box and making something personal public. I don’t believe I have ever made a public comment to anyone. How do you decide that? Is it to compliment the person? Something else?

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aviona's avatar

I haven’t made one public either, but so far I’ve talked about some pretty personal stuff here on Fluther.

asmonet's avatar

If it’s personal, or involves others, it gets checked. It’s public if it’s a compliment or just for silliness.

SuperMouse's avatar

I try to remember to make compliments public, but I don’t always uncheck that box. I’m with you though, I live in mortal fear of some of my more personal stuff “going public”!

DrBill's avatar

Public = goes here

Not public = PM

chyna's avatar

Usually I make the compliments to others public. I don’t think enough compliments are given just in general life, so I make sure to tell people when I appreciate them.

gailcalled's avatar

Either pay careful attention or don’t ever write anything that you wouldn’t want read by the collective, For really private, personal, scurrilous, intimate or gossipy remarks, exchange emails.

casheroo's avatar

I do public comments when I’m not having an actual conversation, or the conversation isn’t of personal matters. I have a lot of comments, but most are private. I need more public comments people.

MacBean's avatar

I don’t think I’ve ever made a public comment, either. If I’m going to bother sending a PM, it’s going to be P.

TitsMcGhee's avatar

I rarely make them public, usually only if it is a link or something funny. Any personal info is automatically private. (But you know that, :P )

Darwin's avatar

Compliments or useful bits of knowledge for all – public

Personal, private, or chiding, definitely private

So far, just about every comment I have ever made could certainly be public, but I don’t always remember to mark them so.

evelyns_pet_zebra's avatar

I agree with Dr_Bill, public goes here, private goes PM.

galileogirl's avatar

It’s kind of funny. Today I ran across 3 new activity responses by the same poster that had been deleted. Out of curiosity, I went to the profile and found he was new yesterday. I thought he might be from that new group so I commented basically Dude not cool. Although I always keep comments private, I decided to make this one public. When I posted the comment, I was sent to a page with something about Andrew making a mistake. The only way I could clear was to go out of Fluther and log back in.

I think that will be the last time I make a cooment public.

marinelife's avatar

I rarely make a comment public.

essieness's avatar

@gallileogirl I went to that person’s page too and saw your comment. I was laughing because you said publicly exactly what I was thinking! turns out it was just spam.

dynamicduo's avatar

I keep comments public if I feel I want others to read them when going on that person’s profile page. I’d say I send an equal amount of private versus public comments.

@galileogirl – I believe that would be because the person was deleted or banned before your comment was submitted. I’ve had this happen a few times too.

aprilsimnel's avatar

If it’s something factual, like You can buy this DVD at such-and-such a site, or I’m telling a joke or I’m complimenting the person, then it’s public. Anything that’s personal I leave private.

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