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Do you guys think he is interested?

Asked by mizkendall3939 (151points) April 7th, 2009

Okay, well there’s this guys who I REALLY like at my church. He makes me SO happy. so i finally told him I like him and asked him how he felt and he’s like “I don’t really know who I like right now, I’ve been really busy.” so than the next time I saw him we started talking a lot and he has been flirting a lot and now every time he sees me he hugs me (which he NEVER used to do) and I really think he’s starting to be interested. Than I told my friend, (who has dated him before) and she said “awwe that’s so cute u guys should date. I think he likes you. And a lot of times when he finds out a girl likes him, he starts to like her.” So what do you think? Is he interested? Should I make the first move or should I wait? thank you!! :))

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Rayvin14's avatar

make the move, tke chances you will never know if you dont ask. its worth a shot, and you dont have to worry about yall not being friends because you have asked him once, so i say go for it. i think he likes u

flameboi's avatar

I’m w/ rayvin, make the move, the worst that can happen is that he will tell you that he wants your friendship, and in the end, that’s not bad either ;) good luck! Remember, we make things happen, that’s how life works!

TitsMcGhee's avatar

You might as well make the move, but be careful that he doesn’t just want to be liked by someone. Don’t jump into boyfriend/girlfriend territory right away – go on a date and see how it goes. Good luck!

funky_princess's avatar

you should make a move, sounds like he likes you. But make sure you dont throw yourself at him! just be subtle and flirt with him! At the end of the day whats the worst that can happen if he doesnt like you in that way? He isnt going to hug someone he doesnt like is he?! go for it girl and let us know how it gies :) xx good luck xx

kayysamm's avatar

Go for it, make the first move. If you don’t and he doesn’t you will always have the “what if” question pondering in your head. Don’t attack when you see him type first move, but maybe suggest you guys go out together something for something fun such as bowling or mini golf. Something cheesy but let’s him know you making an effort to see him outside of chruch and want to spend somet ime tog et to know him.

(: the best of luck.

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