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Is speech a constant stratagem to cover nakedness?

Asked by KalWest (1389points) April 14th, 2009

Harold Pinter:
“There are two silences. One when no word is spoken. The other when perhaps a torrent of language is being employed. This speech is speaking of a language locked beneath it. That is its continual reference. The speech we hear is an indication of that which we don’t hear. It is a necessary avoidance, a violent, sly, anguished or mocking smoke screen which keeps the other in its place. When true silence falls we are still left with echo but are nearer nakedness. One way of looking at speech is to say that it is a constant stratagem to cover nakedness.

We have heard many times that tired, grimy phrase: ‘failure of communication’ … and this phrase has been fixed to my work quite consistently. I believe the contrary. I think that we communicate only too well, in our silence, in what is unsaid, and that what takes place is a continual evasion, desperate rearguard attempts to keep ourselves to ourselves. Communication is too alarming. To enter into someone else’s life is too frightening. To disclose to others the poverty within us is too fearsome a possibility…”

Do you agree?

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qashqai's avatar

Liked the question.
Unsure about the answer though, I can only say me and my bestfriend used to spend entire afternoons together barely speaking, but we did not feel it as a lack/failure of communication. Instead, it was what was making our relation truly special.

hungryhungryhortence's avatar

I agree. As to this, “To disclose to others the poverty within us is too fearsome a possibility…”, when you can lay yourself bare to another and explore that place without fear then you’ve got a friend.

hearkat's avatar

Yes, I agree. I have always marveled at those who need some constant noise (like the TV on when no one’s watching), because I perceive it to be a device they use to distract themselves from themselves. The same with those who engage in meaningless banter (a.k.a. small talk”) to avoid ‘awkward’ silences.

I had observed this early in my 20s, but it was Luscious Jackson’s Naked Eye lyric: “wearing nothing is divine, naked is a state of mind”, that led me to adopt nakedness as a personal philosophy.

The only other thing I have to add is a recent experience when I went to the Doctors for a routine visit, and sat down after I checked in and did nothing. One of the receptionists felt compelled to ask if I wanted to look at a magazine (like I didn’t see them all around the waiting area, including the table right next to me) as if it were odd for someone to just sit quietly.

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